I`ve been seeing this girl for like a month now and whenever we meet, she wants to kiss and othere stuff. Before we met she was in a 2 year relationship and just gotten out of it. She and her friends think im funny guy and suddenly I got this strange mail from her. "I need some time alone. I went on the wall with ****(her last boyfriend), and I am afraid if we meet and stuff like that, will be because I will use you to get over my ex boyfriend and I dont want to do that against you. But at the moment I need some time by my self."
If anyone have a advice what to do here, please let me know...
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15-05-11, 02:20 AM #1
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What to do??
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15-05-11, 04:44 AM #2
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Well, seems like she still has feelings for/ isn't over her ex boyfriend. It may be a good idea to give her some time as she asked. Its not always easy to end a serious relationship and even if you think you may be ready to start dating again, you may actually not be at all. She sounds like a nice girl, she probably doesn't want to hurt or play with you, so as i said, it sounds like a good idea to just give her some time.
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15-05-11, 05:12 AM #3
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She's probably getting back with her ex...so don't always believe what they tell you.
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16-05-11, 01:00 AM #4
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Ditch her.
She's a user man. I've been in the same situation many times and the best bet is to forget about her. When she comes running back to you don't acknowledge her either. Or if you feel like just having sex/hooking up do that. But don't let yourself get attached. In fact, don't let yourself get attached to ANY WOMAN.
You two have only been together for a month, so leave while you still can and just pursue other women!
A rule of thumb I always think by in these situations where you may feel unwanted or sad is there are countless women out there! You will find a girl with better looks, personality, and sexuality if you just have fun, pursue, and not give a damn! Go out with your friends, or just go out alone.. Anywhere and if you see a lady that interests you, strike up a convo with her, exchange numbers, call her a few days later and set up a date.
Hope this helps!
