What if your mouth isn't quite big enough??

[misstgrl]

So I think my question is mainly aimed towards the guys but if any girls have experience in this then thats great, feel free to comment.

I haven't yet given my boyfriend a blow job but I would really like too, one thing that makes me nervous though is that he is quite big and I'm not too sure if my mouth is big enough haha. The last thing I want is to scratch him with my teeth. So my question is... if it turns out that he is just too big, what specific things can I do that will feel really good for him? Its gonna be all about the tongue isn't it?

Thanks guys

[bulrush]

Yes, it will probably be all about the tongue. Ask him what he wants you to do. Better yet, make it a game, tell him you will do whatever he wants with your tongue. And he has to direct you, and talk dirty to you at the same time.

Yes, some guys are just big.

I think they make thin teeth guards for this sort of thing. Teeth are really sharp. Just start looking in online sex shops. It's probably a specialty item. It's like a clear plastic retainer that goes over the tops of your teeth. From incisors are the most dangerous.

[nch713]

if he's that big in girth, good luck deepthroating.

but yes, the tongue is the key to any good bj. lick anywhere and everywhere (until he tells you no)

[Thix42]

One of the things I find lovely about women is their tiny mouth and tongue.

[fun2bwith45]

If you can only fit the 1st 3 inches of his penis into your mouth for example, suck those 3 inches and pleasure the rest of his shaft with her hand. You can also focus on pleasuring the head of his penis since you will easily be able to suck this.

[misstgrl]

"if he's that big in girth, good luck deepthroating"

yeah im not too concerned with deep throating atm, im hoping to get just the head in my mouth to start with lol

[Superfantastich]

Im not a guy but as my boyfriend always says, the tip of the penis is where all the action is at

[Gratedwasabi]

"if he's that big in girth, good luck deepthroating"

yeah im not too concerned with deep throating atm, im hoping to get just the head in my mouth to start with lol

Well, if it's too big for your mouth you just have to give him anal....

[smackie9]

Just use your hands dear, and suck on the head......to a guy getting any kind of blow job is better than no blow job. Don't forget to gently suck on his nuts.

[ShellyZ]

I had this problem too. Actually I don't consider it a problem since I don't want the entire thing in my mouth anyway, but I just explained it to my boyfriend before I started so he wouldn't be disappointed. I told him that I would do my best but I wouldn't be able to take him in very far. He said "just take as much as you can." I covered the rest with my hands. At one point he said "Is that as much as you can take?" And I said "Yes, unless you want me to gag and puke all over you." End of discussion. :-D

Really, he should take it as a compliment. It's proof that he's well-endowed, what guy wouldn't be happy about that?

[fun2bwith45]

Really, he should take it as a compliment. It's proof that he's well-endowed, what guy wouldn't be happy about that?

It's really more proof that you don't have good control of gag reflexes and how to open your esophagus. I'm not saying I do, far from it but come on, tons of pornstars can swallow 9" dicks and entertainers can swallow multiple feet of a sword.

Although on the contrary I remember a joke from an Adam Sandler bit talking about a girl sucking his dick and she goes "OOOMG I can never get guys all the way in my mouth but I can get yours fully in!"
Not a great confidence booster haha

[Yet another guy]

Don't forget to gently suck on his nuts.

Why? I've seen this in porn but I don't get it. Do guys enjoy it?

[qwertz]

I was drunk a few weeks ago, sucked on my bf's nuts...supposed to be a gentle attempt but i think the alcohol made me a bit clumsy and i sucked too hard, one of his balls shot up into my mouth like it was going up a vacuum cleaner. It hurt him, alot.

[DoesntMatter]

Is your boyfriend shaved qwertz? Like pubes and balls? I imagine that would make sucking on the balls much more pleasant

Other women feel free to chime in on this issue.

[smackie9]

Why? I've seen this in porn but I don't get it. Do guys enjoy it?

It's always mentioned to me when I have discussions with with my male co-workers and friends. They like it, they want it.