Sounds more like he doesn't know how to balance his life. I remember when I first started dating and having girlfriends, I would dive headfirst, show them endless attention and basically leave my friends in the dust. That doesn't work well for a relationship. So, the next one, I made it a point to see my friends a lot more and then the girl ended up feeling like I didn't give her enough attention. The key is balance.
However, when you start acting super needy, you're actually pushing the guy away. He's already feeling like he wants a little space and the neediness just really puts more pressure on him. This is YOUR chance to get back and reconnect with your friends.
There must be a LOT more to this story if you've agreed on therapy though. So, paint a bigger picture, if possible.
no autographs, please!
The more I see, the more I don't know for sure. - John Lennon
Life is ... Too Short.
"It seems we living the 'American Dream', but the people highest up got the lowest self-esteem. The prettiest people do the ugliest things ... for the road to riches and diamond rings."