whats wrong with me

[exhausted]

i have been with this guy for 2 years now. last year i was ready to break up with him and i found out i was pregnant. i decided to keep my son and i tired to make our relationship work. i suffer with depression so i need someone who can be there for me when i need him to be. im fine being the one handling things all the time but i do crash and need him to step up and he cant. he is very selfish and sensitive. when i talk about my feelings the conversation always becomes about him and his feelings. i feel so unappreciated.

i am off from work taking care of our son all day and he cant even be there for me emotionally... and the physical... its always over in 5 mins. as soon as i start to enjoy it its over and he is ready to go to sleep leaving me sexually frustrated. i dont mind dealing with that as long as he can support me and for some reason he cant. so i have been crying my eyes out for months telling him what i need from him. he recently started trying but it sems like his selfish ways will never go way and i cant be with a selfish person. i give and he takes...

i have tried everything i could think of to make our relationship work but i am just so hurt its hard to be around him lately. so we had a talk last night which resulted in me crying (i never use to cry until i met this guy) and i asked for a break. just some time for me to focus on me and he can focus on him. he didnt want to but i told him it will be until he is done his exam and can give me all of his attention and i asked him if he had a better idea and as usal he didnt. so we went on a break and today he deleted me off of bbm and text me how i hurt him. is anyone else realizing how the time i needed for me turned into him and his feelings? why am i putting up with this guy?

the sad part is im not even covering everything!

[fun2bwith45]

i have been with this guy for 2 years now. last year i was ready to break up with him and i found out i was pregnant. i decided to keep my son and i tired to make our relationship work.

I'm sorry but you're a ****ing idiot. You definitely made the wrong decision (religion, "morals" aside).

Good luck trying to give your son a decent life though

[Becca-leigh]

Fun to be with 45.......your the idiot mate. You must be a male to reply with such a narrow minded, naive way of looking at life. Your user name should be 'perfect' because you obviously think you are. What makes you think her son won't have a decent life? You think she has made a mistake because she took responsibility for her actions and didn't abort the pregnancy and tried to make happy families with a man she knew wasn't for her but she still persisted in the relationship for the sake of her son? Is this why you think she is an idiot?