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[Mathias]

how is a month not enough time? I should be over this by now and the fact that I am not, tells me that I need to figure out what to do.

Go for it, dude.

But please remember everyone who warned you that it wasn't enough time, and warned you that you were going to get burned - when you do end up getting screwed here.

[DarkHelmet82]

enough time for what? for me, for her, for both? I appreciate your advice, and your honesty. Im lost man, dont knwo if youve been in a situation like this before but it sucks.

[lifemess]

A month isn't that long, cause if you really love someone it will take a long time to heal and move on.
Still, i understand where you're coming from. When you're going through a heartache and you're having trouble sleeping, eating or doing anything at all during the day, a month seems like forever.. I've been there.
It's like this:

Things to do today:
1.Wake up
2.Miss you
3.Survive

....

[Mathias]

enough time for what? for me, for her, for both? I appreciate your advice, and your honesty. Im lost man, dont knwo if youve been in a situation like this before but it sucks.

Many, many times. I've been in many relationships.

Enough time for you. I don't give a shit about her. Eventually, you won't either - I'm trying to get you to that point.

[Mathias]

A month isn't that long, cause if you really love someone it will take a long time to heal and move on.
Still, i understand where you're coming from. When you're going through a heartache and you're having trouble sleeping, eating or doing anything at all during the day, a month seems like forever.. I've been there.
It's like this:

Things to do today:
1.Wake up
2.Miss you
3.Survive

....

Yep. Get to #3. Each day. Without calling her.

Then getting to #3 gets a little easier every day.

[DarkHelmet82]

Many, many times. I've been in many relationships.

Enough time for you. I don't give a shit about her. Eventually, you won't either - I'm trying to get you to that point.

Thank you...

[Purrzzzzzz]

A month isn't that long, cause if you really love someone it will take a long time to heal and move on.
Still, i understand where you're coming from. When you're going through a heartache and you're having trouble sleeping, eating or doing anything at all during the day, a month seems like forever.. I've been there.
It's like this:

Things to do today:
1.Wake up
2.Miss you
3.Survive

....

OMG!!! this is me.. almost...
1. wake up way too early
2.miss you, cry, realize I cant get back to sleep
3.survive the day
4.cry until I can have some vodka
5. try to pass out, dreading the morning

[DarkHelmet82]

yeah me too but without the vodka.. i have another vice... not exactly legal in NY...

[Petit Papillon]

Mathias , you have to know that it's about ex of his who he's been 2 months in relationship with ... It's his 10th thread about it or something.

And to DarkHelmet, couldn't you just put everything in one thread instead of creating a new one every day? Seriously ...

[DarkHelmet82]

why do you need to troll arent you a moderator? good example you are setting. Seems like you are following me too.. you have a crush on me? Sorry I dont like dumb blondes.. Furthermore all the threads had different subject matter. Why am I arguing with you.. I hope you have a wonderful day. God bless you

[Mathias]

Mathias , you have to know that it's about ex of his who he's been 2 months in relationship with ... It's his 10th thread about it or something.

What made you think I didn't know this? I'm confused.

[DarkHelmet82]

shes just trying to get me pissed off.. i could care less what she has to say.. shes just trolling... Furthermore, ive been in relationships that lasted years and have gotten over it easier.. sometimes you just feel strongly about someone.. is that my fault?

[Petit Papillon]

Different titles ,good joke I troll trolls
Don't be ridiculous , 2 months is nothing, if you'd be a 15 yo boy, I could understand it but you're 28 . Isn't it time to grow some hair already ? You should be getting married and starting a family already and you stuck in 2 months relationship heartbreaks . Seriously, you don't have time for such thing . And i'm sure this girl thinks the same way I do and she probably asks herself,everytime you talk to her , " what this dude wants from me,geee" .

[Petit Papillon]

What made you think I didn't know this? I'm confused.

Cause you're so engaged in trying to change his mind I thought you weren't aware of "his situation" But if you do it cause you want it, go ahead

[DarkHelmet82]

Different titles ,good joke I troll trolls
Don't be ridiculous , 2 months is nothing, if you'd be a 15 yo boy, I could understand it but you're 28 . Isn't it time to grow some hair already ? You should be getting married and starting a family already and you stuck in 2 months relationship heartbreaks . Seriously, you don't have time for such thing . And i'm sure this girl thinks the same way I do and she probably asks herself,everytime you talk to her , " what this dude wants from me,geee" .

well we havent spoken in a little while... but you are right...i dont like feeling like this but it is what it is... but no i can guarantee she enjoyed my company. thanks for your input