He dumped me, what did I do wrong?

[Bella314]

I'll make it short and just get to the main parts.

Im 17 and me and my boyfriend has been together for a few months and the last time we had sex he came in me. We have been having problems the last couple of days cause of my jealousy issues about girls on his profile, but i figured thats my issue and i thought everything would be ok so when he messaged me from work i told him that there is a chance i can be pregnant. He said again...lol. I said the last time you pulled out and i told you it might be possible but this time you didnt and the other times i never said anything to you cause you never came in me but this time you did. I forgot what he said but it was mean and i said i forget how insensitive you could be and he got mad and said you know what, im done! I said why and he said cause this is the second time i did this to him and if im gonna call him a insensitive pr-ck then dont talk to him anymore and now hes gonna lose sleep over this. So i started saying i never u called a pr-ck and im sorry i told u and he said yea me too and signed off. I text him apologizing again and if he hated me but he never answered. Im so hurt. Did i do something wrong?

[Boisdevie]

Did you do something wrong? Yep, you had unprotected sex. Are you really that STUPID? You know, here in the 21st century we have a thing called a CONDOM. YOu put it on his THING and then you are very unlikely to get PREGNANT. I hope you aren't pregnant because if you're that stupid then chances are your kid will also be equally stupid.

[Petit Papillon]

Yeah, this is why teenagers should use condoms or other contraception .

[Bella314]

I hope im not pregnant cause God forbid my kid would come out anything like you people. And they call this place a advice forum. what a f---ing joke.

[tremolo]

Bella - you should realize that whether or not he comes in you, you could easily get pregnant without a condom or some other kind of contraception. The pull-out method is not an effective method. You really should not be having sex until you understand properly the risks that come with it. Be responsible for your own well-being and don't expect your teenage boyfriend to give a damn about anything other than his own pleasure.

[VincenzoG91]

I hope im not pregnant cause God forbid my kid would come out anything like you people. And they call this place a advice forum. what a f---ing joke.

"When I was a boy of 14, my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around. But when I got to be 21, I was astonished at how much the old man had learned in seven years." --Mark Twain

Seriously, he dumped you because he is an irresponsible boy who isn't ready to be a father yet. Don't have unprotected sex with anybody until you're ready to support a child. I predict this guy will be back as soon as he is sure that you aren't pregnant, but if you're smart, you will ignore him. Or at least make him uses condoms from now on.

[deepika_16]

Dear Bella, you both are teenagers and it happens but it's true that you both should have taken care of the things while getting intimate with each other. It's something strange that you guys didn't use any protection during the sex as there are lots of choices available today.

But don't worry and don't be stressed with all this damn shit. Take it normally and a lesson for future. In fact, no one can expect the responsible behavior from teens. Still if you need to get advices from the people who have been trhough such problems I have a suggesstion for you to visit this [URL="http://www.myboyisanidiot.com"]love and relationship [/URL]site.

[Boisdevie]

I hope im not pregnant cause God forbid my kid would come out anything like you people. And they call this place a advice forum. what a f---ing joke.

Yeah, well people with a working brain realise that unprotected sex is a really stupid thing to do. You want some advice? Use contraception. Do you need me to explain what the word contraception means?

[MaidenMinx]

Honey, when I feel pregnant with my lil boy my man and I were 23. I told him one day I was a week late and that I was buying a pregnancy test that day. That night I called him (we didn't have time to catch up that night) and told him the big news. He spent the nest 3 days doing nothing but eat (barely), work (lots) and drink and sleep (as much as he could of both). We barely spoke in that time. When we did get together and talk it was all very open and honest and now we're a few days from getting married and our son turns 7 in a few months. Every time I have had a pregnancy scare since, and have told him about it, he'll be scared to touch me for months.

I tell you this as a lesson in how guys react to pregnancy scares. They generally do NOT handle them well. If they want kids they will be devastated when you aren't pregnant and if they don't want kids they won't cope with the idea of potentially suddenly having to make some big decisions.

When I was 16 my Aunt told me that you don't realise sex created babies until you have one. I never believed her until my man wouldn't touch me after a pregnancy scare.

Get on the pill and get used to condoms now! You obviously paranoid of getting pregnant (or you wouldn't be telling your bf of the possibility before you miss a period) and you need to do something to reduce that worry. You have 2 choices. Become celibate (not a bad choice at your age) OR have sex responsibly.