I'm confused as to why you're wondering why she contacted you when it was YOU that contacted her. You emailed her when she deleted you from all the dumb sites she advertises herself on. Had you not contacted her, it's likely she would have never contacted you.
Anyway, if you're interested in getting back with this girl I suggest you first find out if she's still with the guy she started seeing shortly after breaking up with you. If she is then don't bother even talking to her.
Two months of healing back to square one caused by breaking no contact. Confusion and conjecture and guessing all over again. Go back to no contact and if she contacts you and is still involved with the other guy, tell her you think it's best you block and delete one another so you can get on with yours lives games free.
If she persists and keeps on contacting you, you can see that as a sign that she is sincere about wanting to reconcile.
Consider it a sign of wanting to get back with you if she says "Geeze I really made a mistake breaking up with you, do you think we have a chance of reconciling?" (or something similar where she's straight forward) Other than that direct kind of approach, don't take her games as anything other than that.. her playing games or her just wondering whats up with you ~ Particularily if she's still with the new dude.
Last edited by Wakeup; 12-06-11 at 03:59 AM.
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