Too attached :(

[gabriel_uy29]

how do i get to not get too attached to my girlfriend?

when i was young i was emotionally deprived thus resulting to me being clingy.

I get too attached to my girl because shes the only one i think that has loved me this great.

when she replies late, i get angry.
when she befriends hot guys, i get jeleous.
when she doesnt do the things i expect, i get upset.

[surfhb]

You need to go through therapy

[bigdaddy863]

no u dnt wut usto be my best friend is going trough the same thing and theres not realy anything u can do bout it its who u are over time it will go away but i wouldent look for a over night fix gd luck

[gabriel_uy29]

i mean is it okay for girls to have a guy best friends and not have any romantic ideas with each other?

[Mathias]

theres not realy anything u can do bout it its who u are over time it will go away but i wouldent look for a over night fix gd luck

None of this is true.

1. You can get professional help. It's easy to do, and really helps.
2. Barring #1, you're not going to get better over time.

[surgarmuffin24]

It's a really important skill to step back and let her come to you sometimes. It's also rewarding. When you step away and be patient, your partner's natural tendency can be to come straight back to you with the feeling of needing you and that can be really fulfilling. It's also important to recognize what is a real need for you, and what is a "flaw" for you that you are willing to change. Do you really want to be in a relationship where you have to do all the work to make sure she'll stick around? Maybe you're looking for someone to connect with (and be faithful to you) on a deeper level, there are people out there like that you know.