Piece of Advice

[Rhainnonxx]

Just a general piece of advice that I have always kept with me and wanted to share with all of you, (especially those of you doing no contact to get someone back). If you are doing no contact....

Curiousity is a much stronger motivation than jealousy.

Some people believe that a little contact to try and prove that they are fine without their ex partner or to try and make their ex partner jealous by "moving on" will push that partner to come back more quickly. but they saying that sometimes the best action is no action is really very true. Jealousy can cause anger and you don't want that person to come back because of anger. you need to have faith that they are missing you all on their own and that their curiousity of not knowing what you're doing will cause them to come back(if it's meant to be) in a much healthier way. just wanted to share that with all the NC method users out there because i know how frustrating it can get and I know that you always try and find a lame excuse or justification for contacting them, just stay strong!!

[abn25]

Very true...