Hi everyone im new here...
Im in the UK...I met this girl in an online forum back in september 2006. Shes in seattle. Were both muslims and Its important to understand that as muslims were not allowed to meet eachother in real before marriage.
It was amazing..I liked her like crazy back then i was 21 and she was 18. We kept on talking for like a few months untill she got engaged to another guy. I was distraught and devestated...but I didnt hate her I always knew it wont work out with her since I only met her online.
For like 2 years we didnt talk...but during this time...all i could do was think about her...I met other girls but its wierd...she was always on my mind.
Back 2 years ago...I was told that she broke off her 2 year long engagement and we started talking again as freinds online. I was happy but at the same time sad she had to go through such a terrible ordeal with her ex. Stupidly of me..only after 2 weeks of talking with her on msn...I did the dumbest thing any man could do to a girl who broke of from a potential marriage. I sent her a love poem.
She was so happy at first and she seemed excited. Then suddenly..literally after just 2 or 3 weeks...I talk to her on msn then she delivers the first blow to my chest she tells me ''im sorry im not in a mood to talk with you now''
I was shocked by that so much I couldnt beleive it.
Then for like a year...It was all like a cat and mouse game. I kept on telling her I love her, she would seem unsure like sometimes shes encouraging me and sometimes she seemed annoyed with me.
Untill like last October...we got into a huge fight...i mean HUGE. I was so pissed off with her that I started calling her stupid to her friend behind her back. I was pissed off with her because she wasnt giving me a straight answer. She was being too ambigious.
Since that fight we talked as freinds only untill she told me she loved another guy with ''all her heart'' that destroyed me and she knew it.
Untill finally I got the answer out of her..she finally told me that she has been lying to me for like a year or so and shes really been in love with this other guy and shes been delibretly trying to hurt me so i can hate her so i could leave her alone.
Im angry at her...I dont think ill stop being angry at her for treating me like that...but I still love her like crazy. We havnt talked in ages...I send her the occasional email which she replies to mostly but only breifly.
I cant stop thinking about her...I still cry about her sometimes and I dont know what to do.