What do men in relationships really think when watching porn?

[smackie9]

watching porn is morally wrong

Only if you think it is......

[Sonrisa]

Only if you think it is......

it will damage your outlook on sex and make you have high expectations of your partner thus leading to great disappointments and unhealthy sexual life

[Katmeow85]

I dont mind him lookingat women and appreciating them it is actually getting off on it that makes me feel bad.

[VincenzoG91]

it will damage your outlook on sex and make you have high expectations of your partner thus leading to great disappointments and unhealthy sexual life

Watching romantic comedies is wrong.

[Sonrisa]

Watching romantic comedies is wrong.

do elaborate

[Mathias]

do elaborate

His point is pretty obvious.

[ctr916]

Don't you guys have this amazing mental store of visual images?

I'd prefer y'all used that

I would like to, but not enough women send me pictures of them being themselves, in the most heterosexual of manners.

[ctr916]

If that is true then why do some of the guys say they need to see variety?

In my case, it is different perspectives and points of view; just like in real life.

I still find it difficult to believe women actually have a problem with regular porn; it would be more understandable if it were live porn and he actually went to that place to see live women engaged in real life porn.

It could be helpful if women were upfront about their issues with porn on their profiles, instead of it becoming an issue afterward.

[VincenzoG91]

do elaborate

Watching romantic comedies will damage your outlook on love and make you have high expectations of your partner thus leading to great disappointments and an unhealthy love life.

[Sonrisa]

Watching romantic comedies will damage your outlook on love and make you have high expectations of your partner thus leading to great disappointments and an unhealthy love life.

ah, right, who was the wise man who said that in the future all boys will be girls?

[ctr916]

ah, right, who was the wise man who said that in the future all boys will be girls?

In case you didn't know it; our federal Constitution was gender neutral from inception and our Ninth Amendment ( a part of our Bill of Rights) also applies to women.

The enumeration in the Constitution of certain rights shall not be construed to deny or disparage others retained by the people.

[Sonrisa]

Boys will be girls
National Post

An all-male species would die, of course. The future of males, Dr. Jones believes, is not bright. Someday, boys will be girls.
The world's library shelves are already sagging with books devoted to the spiritual and functional downfall of man.
After a bright evolutionary start, however, the state of maleness has begun to look gloomy indeed. Not only are our genes failing them, social and economic pressures are driving them down.

[Sonrisa]

In case you didn't know it; our federal Constitution was gender neutral from inception and our Ninth Amendment ( a part of our Bill of Rights) also applies to women.

i must agree that most men nowadays are gender neutral

[Katmeow85]

In my case, it is different perspectives and points of view; just like in real life.

I still find it difficult to believe women actually have a problem with regular porn; it would be more understandable if it were live porn and he actually went to that place to see live women engaged in real life porn.

It could be helpful if women were upfront about their issues with porn on their profiles, instead of it becoming an issue afterward.

Profiles? I met my bf in real life. He knew I had some issue with it before we were a couple as I was in another relationship and talked to him about being upset about it. It was normal porn but other things like real girls and ex talking to other women and stuff.My ex told me he looked at them because I was ugly and fat. He said no one would ever wanna have sex with me because I was hideous.

I used to watch porn with my first bf. I didnt feel threatened then. Maybe after my first break up when he left me for another girl and my other ex that abused me mentally eg calling me worthless, fat, ugly..etc and physically abusing me has made me feel this way.

I cant help that it hurts me. I know I'm pretty and worth something but Im so scared they turn him on more than me. Im scared he'll wake up one day and not want me. It isnt just the porn. Its just worrying he wants someone better than me. Why would anyone want me. The porn just proves to me I'm not good enough.

[Sonrisa]

do men have to be masculine in order to be called men?