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    What do men in relationships really think when watching porn?

    I'd just like to know what you think when you're in a relationship and watch porn.
    Is it because your unsatisfied with your girlfriend/wife? Do you like the womenin the porn more than your girlfriend/wife? Can't you be bother to have sex with your girlfriend/wife?

    I just need to know. Very insecure.

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    Think? Who says we think when watching porn?

    Has absolutely NOTHING to do with my love/sex life. I don't do it much now that I'm with my wife, but that's more because I'm over 40, don't have much sexual energy to spare, and my wife is quite randy. If I were younger it'd be different, LOL.

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    its call bored and wanting somthing to look at when getting it out. now for some its becomes an addition. ive never sat there looked at porn for hours just cuz.

    but like al things porn gets old, seemed to be more a single thing for me honestly when i wanted to rub 1 out lol

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    What do men in relationships really think when watching porn?

    Yeah. Oh yeah. That's hot. Just like that baby. Yeah, shake it like that. Mm-hmm. Oh damn. Ohh. Yeahhh. Oh, oh oh oh YEAHHHHHH.
    Good decisions come from experience. Experience comes from bad decisions.

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    @vincen loool funny! +Rep for you, i couldn't have put it better myself...

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    I am in a relationship and secretly watch porn occasionally, probably a combined 45 mins. per week. It doesn't have anything to do with my GF other than she isn't having sex with me enough. When watching porn I usually think about trying some of that crazy stuff with her, but I know she won't, so I keep watchin' and whackin'! Sometimes the girls in the porno are better looking than my GF, but then again they are literal whores, so how attracted can you be to that?!?! My GF told me one time that she would be upset if I were jackin off because I should be having sex with her instead, I told her that if she is prepared to give it up twice a day at my request then she would have nothing to worry about. Needless to say, she doesn't want to be my dick holster, so I watch a little porn and she pretends that I don't. Works out quite well this way.

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    Man. I would have sex with my partner as many times as he wanted. He would never be able to use that excuse. Haha.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tremolo View Post
    Man. I would have sex with my partner as many times as he wanted. He would never be able to use that excuse. Haha.
    Wow! That's awesome. I wish my GF had that kind of libido. Now if you will excuse me, I have a short video to watch...

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    Quote Originally Posted by tremolo View Post
    Man. I would have sex with my partner as many times as he wanted. He would never be able to use that excuse. Haha.
    You should come over tonight. I'm cooking up some tex-mex food.
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    Quote Originally Posted by VincenzoG91 View Post
    You should come over tonight. I'm cooking up some tex-mex food.
    You had me at 'cooking'.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tremolo View Post
    Man. I would have sex with my partner as many times as he wanted. He would never be able to use that excuse. Haha.
    That's not always the only factor. My wife has as high a libido as mine... at least.

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    I would be seriously offended if my partner could have sex with me whenever he wanted and chose to watch porn instead of be with me. I would be massively, massively offended.

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    I know for a fact that quite often my guy is thinking 'that's hilarious!' I've caught him laughing at porn a few times. And I have to admit that watching a naked woman in a half squat push an apple out of one hole and an orange out of the other is quite funny. A lot of porn he watches out of a morbid curiosity based on what some people will do for money and the bizarre things people get off on.

    He does look at porn he enjoys for the sake of porn but I know it's not excessive, if he's stupid enough to leave anything where I can see it it gets ditched. Though I think it helps me that he has a greater appreciation of erotica than porn.

    Honestly, I think women make life easier on themselves when they accept that porn is at a point where guys will gather around their phones and share videos. It doesn't mean they aren't attracted to, or not in love with their partner. It means they enjoy looking. It's normal.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tremolo View Post
    I would be seriously offended if my partner could have sex with me whenever he wanted and chose to watch porn instead of be with me. I would be massively, massively offended.
    Watching it together can be fun.
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    Quote Originally Posted by VincenzoG91 View Post
    Watching it together can be fun.
    Quite true.

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