What do men in relationships really think when watching porn?

[ctr916]

Don't you have a sex ad to post on Craigslist or something?

I have already posted it; in case you haven't noticed, I don't mind multi-tasking.

[doppelgaenger]

I have already posted it; in case you haven't noticed, I don't mind multi-tasking.

I haven't noticed because I'm not looking for a friend who will give me a thousand massages and all that mumbo jumbo.

[ctr916]

That's too bad, you seem like you could be a nice guy who would make a nice boyfriend for some girl; but for that.

[doppelgaenger]

That's too bad, you seem like you could be a nice guy who would make a nice boyfriend for some girl; but for that.

I prefer celibacy and porn.

[ctr916]

Good for you.

[ctr916]

This post was about what guys really think while watching porn and does it mean they arent good enough...etc. It has turned into a silly argument. It was a way for me to understand what men think and feel when watching it. This post is now a joke.

I believe most guys may have reached the consensus that most women are resorting to forms of fallacy by believing they are not good enough, simply because porn enables a more level playing field for guys when compared to the age before the Information Age.

[Wakeup]

Women simply complain about nice guys being that honest as a form of respect toward fellow human beings, for some reason; it may not be the same reason those same women don't complain about bad boys just using them for sex.

I am "entitled" to it simply because I am willing to argue about it to discover truth value through argumentation. Or, if you prefer, I am holy and moral enough for Apollo to simply "make it known to me"; as Athena would be for you, but for your lack of true witness bearing and that form of lack of morality.

Yes, I suppose you think me a liar and you are entitled to normal knowledge and why do people deny you? I remember you, troll. You get around.

[Katmeow85]

I believe most guys may have reached the consensus that most women are resorting to forms of fallacy by believing they are not good enough, simply because porn enables a more level playing field for guys when compared to the age before the Information Age.

What did men do before the information age and what did these women do?

[Katmeow85]

Some nice guys really do use porn for goodness and not badness; in my case, i use porn to practice not judging women by the clothes they don't wear on the internet. I think it even ports to real life situations. You are welcome to call me on it whenever you are brave enough.

I never said porn was used for badness or is bad. I don't mind porn. It is how it effects me when I know my bf watches it that upsets me and he knows it upsets me. That is what hurts. He knows it upsets me yet he still will do it. It is like my feelings really don't matter.

I just wanted to know why men use it and what is going through their heads. Also if it means they don't find their gfs as attractive as the porn stars.

Also I believe you can learn some techniques from porn but you can't really know what works unless you are practicing on a live women as she can tell you whether it is doing anything for her or not. Also every woman is different. What works for one may not neccesarily work for another.

[Wakeup]

Kat your problem isn't porn. Your problem is your guy has somehow lost his emotional connection with you. You guys need to get away for a power weekend of romance and seduction and intimate conversations with one another. Porn is the last of your worries.

[smackie9]

What did men do before the information age and what did these women do?

Porn has been around since the dawn of man kind....they used drawings, paintings, and even frescoes depicting sexual acts........in the 1800's when photography was invented and before moving pictures, they made flip cards. It's nothing new.

[Wakeup]

Agreed:

Have you never watched the HBO Series "Sparticus," Kat? The emperor and his wife/mistress (whatever) used slaves for their sexual viewing pleasure. They'd get turned on by the scene and they'd release their pent up sexual desire on each other.

[smackie9]

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Conventionally, it is men who use women for sex and then decide whether they will give her the relationship that she conventionally wants.

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That's not true. Wanting a relationship is a two way street...look at the majority of nice guy posts, wanting a relationship with a girl that is using them as their emotional tampon and getting rejected after. Remember it's us women who decide if and when men will get sex, hence the reason for prostitution.

[smackie9]

Agreed:

Have you never watched the HBO Series "Sparticus," Kat? The emperor and his wife/mistress (whatever) used slaves for their sexual viewing pleasure. They'd get turned on by the scene and they'd release their pent up sexual desire on each other.

I tried watching that series and found it boring....should have stuck with it lol.

[Katmeow85]

Porn has been around since the dawn of man kind....they used drawings, paintings, and even frescoes depicting sexual acts........in the 1800's when photography was invented and before moving pictures, they made flip cards. It's nothing new.

I already know this. I wanted ctr916 to realise its been around forever.