How do I pick up a guy at a club or bar?

[hellokity]

I'm shy but I'm not, makes sense?

OK so I'm open but in more intimate places or quiet places whatever etc... I just want to know if there is a way to pick up a guy with out actually aprocahing the guy?

[vashti]

flash him your boobs.

[hellokity]

LOOL! That would probably work I'm a double D.

[Mathias]

I'm shy but I'm not, makes sense?

OK so I'm open but in more intimate places or quiet places whatever etc... I just want to know if there is a way to pick up a guy with out actually aprocahing the guy?

Say hi. You'll be able to gauge in 5 seconds whether he's worth talking to, and whether he wants to talk to you.

It's as simple as that.

[Mathias]

LOOL! That would probably work I'm a double D.

Congratulations?

[smackie9]

When a guy walks in the club, make eye contact, stare and then look away......wait a few secs and see if he is trying to look back, make strong eye contact again. Before you know he is checking you out and making his approach. Or you could make like you accidentally bump into him, appologize but make sure you drag your hand down his arm, and lightly squeeze his hand. Smile and try to walk away. If he doesn't stop you glace back and wink. Just work it.

[bulrush]

Why not buy him a drink? If you don't take an active role, your opportunities are pretty limited.

[redmagnum]

I don't overthink it when I talk to women.........what has worked for me is to genuinely say "Hi........You're beautiful, what's your name?"

For a woman, maybe less direct...........I'm not being vain, but one girl came up to me at a bar and said "hi, I just wanted to say I saw you across the room and I can't take my eyes off you" and she was cute, I ended up dating her for a month or so but the rest of the relationship wasn't as hot as that opening line...........

[MaidenMinx]

Dance, and watch who you are interested while you dance. If they too are interested they will approach you. If they like to dance, it will be on the dance floor if they don't it will be at the bar.

[Yet another guy]

Just go talk to them. Guys appreciate straight forwardness. Smiling, compliments, touching and eye contact are all effective ways to get him interested.

[bulrush]

^^^ Yep. If a woman talks to me first, then I'm interested.

[mwahahaha]

omg, a woman asking for advise how to pick up a dude in a bar? really?
step1 get dressed
step 2 go to bar

there is no step 3 where i live, hope this helps

[smackie9]

omg, a woman asking for advise how to pick up a dude in a bar? really?
step1 get dressed
step 2 go to bar

there is no step 3 where i live, hope this helps

Its not that easy for some women. There are a lot of great guys out there that get intimidated and are too scared to approach you. Giving them strong signs, green lights, or breaking the ice gets way faster results than sitting on a stool hoping for the right guy to come along.

[98db]

Its not that easy for some women. There are a lot of great guys out there that get intimidated and are too scared to approach you. Giving them strong signs, green lights, or breaking the ice gets way faster results than sitting on a stool hoping for the right guy to come along.

1. Smile at him
2. Say Hi
3. Ask him if your top makes your boobs look huge

If you actually make it to #3 and he still doesn't pick up on you, then he is probably gay.

[Simon_ricci]

Smile. This might sound dumb, but everybody’s attracted to a good smile. You can’t pick up a guy if you look sour, so flash those pearly whites. You never know when somebody cute is going to look your way.
Be open. This does not translate to “Be desperate.” Instead, what I mean is that you should believe that you can meet guys anywhere—including at the grocery store.
Just some tips.