my bf's platonic friend

[elleda]

.... if he thought anybody was better than me he would be with her and not me.

happened to me! exact same thing. he told me it was a mutual breakup and then i found out that he had cheated on her. he'd be with her, not you if she were better....OR if she wouldn't take him back....

food for thought

ps: DUMP HIM AND RUN if you haven't figured it out already. such a crock of s$$$$

[elleda]

^^^ You'd be a good **** buddy but a lousy relationship partner by the sounds of things. In fact you and the Op's bf's FWB would probably be perfect for one another. People who don't have any personal or relationship boundaries and who cannot emphatize with the feelings of their partner (as in how they would feel with them hanging out one-on-one with a **** buddy) don't make good life partners. It's as simple as that. You cannot be in a relationship and still act single with members of the opposite sex. It's against human nature and the possessive way humans love one another.

oh thankyou. i am going to key this into my ex's car )))

[Mathias]

ps: DUMP HIM AND RUN if you haven't figured it out already. such a crock of s$$$$

This is way over the top, especially since we haven't heard the other side of the story.

oh thankyou. i am going to key this into my ex's car )))

Oh. Well, that explains a lot.