could i have some advice please - getting a girl

[bluewahoo]

Lol. Thanks...

Now for first date tips? Like first date ever, not first with this person...

I didn't really want to do it on msn but she didn't really leave me with much choice! It was going on and on!

[HeartIsAching]

Heheheheh... told ya so.

[bluewahoo]

Yeah, as i say, just pissed off it was over msn.

[HeartIsAching]

Yeah, as i say, just pissed off it was over msn.

Do you have her phone number? Call her and talk to her.

[bluewahoo]

i do, but gone to bed now. call and do/say what?

[HeartIsAching]

Dude!

Anything. Find out where/when she wants to go, for starters.

[lahnnabell]

No, no... Find out what she likes then YOU decide where to take her.

[TheTooya]

This thread is soooooo cute! It makes me happy just reading it through!

Since I don't regular here all that much, a few things about your first date to keep in mind.

1 - Be friendly/polite (obviously), and try not to seem too nervous (women can smell weakness!)
2 - Don't walk in with an expectation of getting a kiss. Don't try to "seek out" that moment, if things are going reallly smoothly, *great*.
3 - If you are feeling kind of awkward on conversation, ask her about herself. We humans are almost alll self-absorbed and have a *lot* to say about ourselves.

Good luck!

[dan2k7]

TheTooya is right, especially on the first point. I have found that for many girls confidence and her first impression of you can be a make or break as to whether you get a second date. Naturally she will understand you to be maybe a little nervous at first but if you are still a wreck by the end of the night and not feeling easy in her presence she will pick up on it. Try to make her and yourself as comfortable as possible around each other and keep the conversation flowing, awkward silences are never good. Think up some good conversation starters if things start to run dry, occasional compliment never hurts as long as you add a bit of humour in there to break the ice a bit. Above all be yourself! Don't try and guess what type of lad she is looking for, just loosen up and enjoy the date, good luck and let us know how you get on

[bluewahoo]

i asked if she wanted to go for a walk so...just finding somewhere nice.

We are friends, so relativly close anyway, so hopefully it won't be too awkward lol

agh!

[Yet another guy]

Congrats
My first first date was last November and we went ice skating
I'm not sure if it counts though, since she called me beforehand to say she's not interested in dating me but we can go as friends... My advice is, don't get too attached just because she shows some attention and agreed to go on a date.

[bluewahoo]

Congrats
My first first date was last November and we went ice skating
I'm not sure if it counts though, since she called me beforehand to say she's not interested in dating me but we can go as friends... My advice is, don't get too attached just because she shows some attention and agreed to go on a date.

Ahh right, it was just the way it was going with 21 questions, why else would you ask to play that?

We seem to get on well together when we go out, we'll see, hope it goes ok.

Any tips on what to do etc on a walk?

[Yet another guy]

Yeah, you seem to have better luck than I did
Try to choose a path with nice scenery that you can point out if you sense an awkward silence.
Also, in case you pass a bench, I always offer a shoulder massage on my first dates, which has usually worked out nicely.

[bluewahoo]

I tried a shoulder massage on my sister and ended up hurting her so i'll leave that one out lol!!

Just hope it goes ok! worried now lol!

[Yet another guy]

Aww, don't worry! It's going to be fun
Hope for the best, prepare for the worst but never expect anything. That's my motto.