She says " He Gives Me Butterflies!"

[MaidenMinx]

Depends on the person. The more willing you are to let go, move and forgive the quicker and easier it is.

A quick point on forgiveness. Forgiveness is actually a selfish act. You do not forgive to make the other person feel better, you forgive to make yourself to feel better. Forgive these men that have hurt you (I get the impression you are hanging onto more than one mans worth of hurt ). I can almost assure you they knew no better. Let it go, hun. Your hurt doesn't keep you safe, it keeps you trapped.

[vampiress]

I'm finding it too hard to forgive and forget!
but if I can't forgive then what does that make me? a bad person?
I hate to believe that!

[Mathias]

I'm finding it too hard to forgive and forget!
but if I can't forgive then what does that make me? a bad person?
I hate to believe that!

I'm starting to think you don't really want to move on. You'd rather tell the world how miserable you are.

[vampiress]

I can't help it, everyone keeps blaming me for blowing my relationship.
It's like the end of the world. being single all over again.

[Mathias]

I can't help it, everyone keeps blaming me for blowing my relationship.
It's like the end of the world. being single all over again.

But it's not the end of the world. You're alive and breathing.

And people that blame you can **** off. If you let the negativity into your life, that's all you can expect.

You just won't let that crap go, which makes me think you really can help it, you just don't want to.

[vampiress]

you know I feel much better now

[MaidenMinx]

Good. I didn't notice this thread had been responded to so sorry for my delayed reply..

If you really can't forgive that doesn't make you a bad person, but it will make you a sad person. It's all up to you. It really is.

[vampiress]

Good. I didn't notice this thread had been responded to so sorry for my delayed reply..

If you really can't forgive that doesn't make you a bad person, but it will make you a sad person. It's all up to you. It really is.

I thought a lot about what you said. so i decided to start by FORGET. it's not that easy since I still see him on weekly basis (WORK)
I didn't avoid him yesterday.but I acted indifferent about it.so he was pissed off.....

[sadie_genie]

It depends. I feel fluttering in my pelvis area.

[Pookie]

I'd love to know why we get those feelings. Just thinking of the person I am falling for gives me butterflies.
You will feel it once again and it will be wonderful.