lie about # of sex partners?

[Sonrisa]

What is your number

just counted, it's 9 over the period of 14 years

[Kiechi]

^ LOL

Refuse anyone over 10, yet you're sitting on the fence at 9.

[smackie9]

So how come you can tell your GFs but not your Partner? I've never understood that about women

I tell my GFs jack s hit....I don't trust them....they gossip too much!

[smackie9]

^ LOL

Refuse anyone over 10, yet you're sitting on the fence at 9.

LOL!! That's awsome!

[sweetest]

hello everyone

i have a question.

what counts as having slept with somone? Is it the obvious or do other things count aswell?

I was wondering ????????????

[smackie9]

My number is over 10 LOL I guess I fail......better tell my husband LOL! Oh that's right he doesnt care even after 21 years.

[smackie9]

hello everyone

i have a question.

what counts as having slept with somone? Is it the obvious or do other things count aswell?

I was wondering ????????????

Ya does that include hand jobs?? how about dry humping?

[smackie9]

Guys I have slept with keep popping into my head lol.....the numbers are growing!

[maxmax]

Ya does that include hand jobs?? how about dry humping?

I think holding hands too, depending on how conservative you are.

[sweetest]

I have a #.

I think that i've remembered all, then another long forgotten to-do appears...

lots of giggles...i love this forum...

and where's rafterman, i'm waiting for his take on this

[Sonrisa]

^ LOL

Refuse anyone over 10, yet you're sitting on the fence at 9.

exactly my point

[Incognito]

100 partners or more is extreme....we are talking average people in average relationships. This numbers thing is blown out of proportion here. If you demand numbers you are insecure, if you just ask about past relationships its just curiosity. For me it was just curiosity when I met my husband. When I was dating other guys before him I never inquired about numbers....

Yes 100 partners is on the extreme end which is why I picked that inflated number, although the guy that I mentioned earlier was around or over 100 partners. Anyway, "if you demand numbers you are insecure" is simply a label that you have come up with for people whose actions you don't like regarding this subject. Wanting to know is their prerogative, not insecurity. If you're buying a used car is it insecure to check how many miles are on it instead of trying not to think about it? No, its prudent. There is no need to berate anyone else whose views on sexuality aren't as loose as yours, and no thats not an insult even though it may sound like one. I actually enjoy hearing stories about your seeming sexual freeness (if it is indeed you that I am thinking of), but again, there is no need to belittle those who need to know how many sexual partners their significant other has had before committing fully.

[Incognito]

just counted, it's 9 over the period of 14 years

9 in 14 years? Wow, I'm surprised because I've seen your picture.

[smackie9]

Yes 100 partners is on the extreme end which is why I picked that inflated number, although the guy that I mentioned earlier was around or over 100 partners. Anyway, "if you demand numbers you are insecure" is simply a label that you have come up with for people whose actions you don't like regarding this subject. Wanting to know is their prerogative, not insecurity. If you're buying a used car is it insecure to check how many miles are on it instead of trying not to think about it? No, its prudent. There is no need to berate anyone else whose views on sexuality aren't as loose as yours, and no thats not an insult even though it may sound like one. I actually enjoy hearing stories about your seeming sexual freeness (if it is indeed you that I am thinking of), but again, there is no need to belittle those who need to know how many sexual partners their significant other has had before committing fully.

You belittle those as being loose for having more than your specifications...I'll reword it as being narrow minded?? Just because people have high numbers doesnt mean they were all one night stands and they were screwing whomever randomly. Not everyone fits into your point of view. I dont care wheather you have had 2 or twenty...it makes no difference to me.

[Incognito]

Ok calm down smackie, and actually read. I explained why I used the word "loose" above, if you choose to ignore my explanation and take offense then that is your problem. Also don't put words in my mouth because I never said anything about one night stands or randomly screwing people. In fact all I ever said was that the person asking has a right to know, if they indeed ask, before fully committing to a long term relationship. PEROID! So don't jump down my throat because you have a hot head and don't take the time to read before responding like some idiotic teenager in a chat room.