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    I'm gonna keep this short and sweet.. but please help me out..

    When an insecure girl isn't open to sex, and i tried to help her out with it.. She has an argument with me saying she doesnt have a high sex drive, so i lay off as a respectful boyfriend.
    And she broke up with me because our sex life was a little dry.. so she wanted more sex, but she don't like going on top, spontaneous like going outside.. so what how the hell could i help out the situation if she isn't open about it as much as me..

    She has an argument with me cos I want sex, saying how her sex drive isnt as high as mine..
    She has an argument because there isn't enough sex..

    she slaps my hand if i make a move..
    so i dont do anything unless she tries making the move.. (because i respect the girl)
    she never does make the move..
    she has an argument at me cos i dont make the moves..
    so i make the moves..
    she dont wanna do some things.. and yells at me if i want to talk about what she likes to do..
    so.. (Loop the previous 6 lines over an over)...

    and was like that for 17 months..

    is she a headf***, but all i know is i cant ever force an insecure girl to do anything... advice?
    Its really playing on me..

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    Quote Originally Posted by AndiRoo View Post
    is she a headf***, but all i know is i cant ever force an insecure girl to do anything... advice?
    Its really playing on me..
    Short and sweet answer: yes, she is a headf***. You dodged a bullet. Pick a sane one next time.
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    Why on earth do I still want her back... must be some kinda power :/...

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    Sex hormones. Designed over millions of years to make you crazy, Andi. That's all it is. Go grab a beer and forget about her.
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    And it only fizzled out cos she WONT LET ME F*****G TALK ABOUT SEX!!, bites my goddamn head off!, so that put me ina place where I DONT SAY ANYTHING TIL SHE DOES!!.. and its STILL WRONG!!

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    You're trying to think rationally about a chick who is nuts, man. Can't be done.
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    Sorry man, but when a girl doesn't give u answers, you have no one else to ask but yourself, then I question where I went wrong, but when I posted this up, I told it how it is... but the girl does have some head issues...

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    As you said,she's a headF$#k. The reason why you want her back is because you have'nt found someone else yet. Start looking. A girl like that will send you insane.

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    It's a common story and usually the best answer is to break it off. You are not compatible sexually. If she won't discuss it and communicate you can never solve this problem. Therefore relationship was guaranteed to self destruct. Find someone with a little more self esteem who can at least discuss the problems so there is the potential for a solution.

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