GF has kissed few times before ...

[ijomer]

Hello I am new to this forum, and am hoping people are supportive and can give me good advice

I got with a girl a few weeks ago, and just today she tells me that she has kissed a guy few times before me..

Well I'm not a jealous type, i wouldn't mind,until i found out that this guy is a total outcast, jerk and no lifer...

for example, he has been telling some people around that he "slept with her" which is not the case... as my girlfriend says it was a mistake and she was young and naive, and wishes she had never done that..

so what should i do? how can i make myself less mad due to the fact that the guy is like that and he can potentially say more things in future?

[Sonrisa]

it really doesn't matter if she slept with him or kissed him. you won't be the first or the last. get used to that thought.

[devonbrown]

It was in the past, before you started seeing her. Since you can't turn back time, you just have to find a way to deal with it. If you can't, then you will probably have bigger problems because EVERYONE has a past.

As for this guy saying he slept with her ... guys lie to impress their friends. Just ignore it and ignore him.

If you like this girl, then continue to date her. It really can be as simple as that.

Good luck.

[Cerby]

What Devon said.

[BackUpOrGetStng]

The guy probably isn't lying about sleeping with her. They most likely had sex.

[Mathias]

The guy probably isn't lying about sleeping with her. They most likely had sex.

Yeah, you're right. Guys never lie about that.