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    How will i know that she loves me truly or using me?

    Dear all

    I just wanna put up the question "How will i know that she loves me truly or using me?" because i dont want to get used again after been used by them....Please let me know....its hard for me to find the differences when behaving with them...
    Last edited by smartguy; 06-08-11 at 12:23 AM.
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    I don't mind being used for sex by women until I clamor for a relationship, so I am not sure I understand what your problem is.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ctr916 View Post
    I don't mind being used for sex by women until I clamor for a relationship, so I am not sure I understand what your problem is.
    I am not meaning about sex...
    She was using me to get her things done and acting as a girl friend at that time but later when her work over then she avoids me...
    so i thought she truly loves me but later i understood that she used me...
    too hard to find differences...
    Last edited by smartguy; 06-08-11 at 02:12 AM.
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    Next time tell her you prefer to be used for sex instead.

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    Quote Originally Posted by smartguy View Post
    She was using me to get her things done and acting as a girl friend at that time but later when her work over then she avoids me...
    Don't bother doing things or work for girls until you're in a relationship.
    You can't buy love, but you pay heavily for it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yet another guy View Post
    Don't bother doing things or work for girls until you're in a relationship.
    I am not bothering at that time when i respected her..
    I used to be crazy for doing things to her...
    I even flew 2000 miles to see her on knowing that i cannot afford to buy flight tickets....
    The pain which i am feeling now is making me to think like these...
    Currently on my way to Cloud Number 9.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by ctr916 View Post
    Next time tell her you prefer to be used for sex instead.
    The relationship broke....
    Currently on my way to Cloud Number 9.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by smartguy View Post
    I am not bothering at that time when i respected her..
    I used to be crazy for doing things to her...
    I even flew 2000 miles to see her on knowing that i cannot afford to buy flight tickets....
    The pain which i am feeling now is making me to think like these...
    I didn't mean you shouldn't be bothered by doing things or work for her.
    I mean that it was a mistake to do it.
    You can't buy love, but you pay heavily for it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by smartguy View Post
    I am not bothering at that time when i respected her..
    I used to be crazy for doing things to her...
    I even flew 2000 miles to see her on knowing that i cannot afford to buy flight tickets....
    The pain which i am feeling now is making me to think like these...
    You may wan to consider a petty cash fund for such purposes next time, as an opportunity cost.

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    Quote Originally Posted by smartguy View Post
    The relationship broke....
    I should work better on the next one since you can be more honest about it upfront.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yet another guy View Post
    I didn't mean you shouldn't be bothered by doing things or work for her.
    I mean that it was a mistake to do it.
    I am afraid of doing favors to girls...
    I also doing more favors to another female friend but i stopped now when i come to know that she is using me...
    I dont know why some girls are like this...
    Genuineness is missing in them....
    so sad...
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    Quote Originally Posted by ctr916 View Post
    You may wan to consider a petty cash fund for such purposes next time, as an opportunity cost.
    I just flew with the capital reserves that i had...
    Currently on my way to Cloud Number 9.....

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    omg its funny but its not, the poor guy is confused

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