Just too good for me

[FlyingGinger]

theres a really hot girl at college and shes in almost all my classes and I sit next to her and chat and stuff. I really like her but I can't tell how she feels about me. Sometimes I think theres a chance but sometimes its almost impossible.
ouI think she is way outa my league, but Im not sure. But she can be so lovely with me, i'm getting such mixed signals. And obviously shes single..
Any advice??

[Vanessa]

Ask her out and see what she says?

[Wakeup]

Absolutely ask her out and see what she says. The confidence you show by doing that will be very attractive to her even if she says no. Rejection is nothing to fear. All it is is an oportunit lost... Her lost opportunity, not yours.

Let us know what she says.

[maxmax]

You know ... it has hit me today.

I can't stop thinking about the girl I am dating.

I can't stop thinking just how beautiful and great she is.

I'm also thinking she is probably too good for me and that she might come to realise this.

All of which is sillyness, so I will stop thinking that.

[HeartIsAching]

Do NOT under any circumstances ever decide a girl is way out of your league. That's for her to decide, not you. If you fancy her, take a shot. You can't win if you don't play.

[Dank]

Ask you will never know!

[ctr916]

In my opinion, a guy can never have too many girl friends.

[sweetest]

If you're saying that she's not like this all the time then that's probably because you're picking up on every little detail.

If you show her more signs that you're interested, flirt with her, pay her a compliment and make her laugh (we love it when a guy makes us giggle) If she then warms to this, then i'd say she's interested.

good luck

[smackie9]

Oh for crying out loud, just ask her out and stop playing games.

[ctr916]

It is easier said than done in some cases; besides, if it is that simple, why don't women do it more often? Equal work for equal pay or something like that.

[smackie9]

Hey the young ones haven't figured it out yet that is all. I totally agree with you....I had np asking guys out....don't know what the big deal is.

[ramramita]

be brave dude, just go and ask her , tell her evrything how you feel about her.

[sadie_genie]

Most likely won't work out if its true she is too good for you.

[Ric]

Let her decide whether she's too good for you or not. In the meanwhile, try thinking you're too good for her and build up some nice confidence.

[Vanity]

I thought my boyfriend was way out of my league too, he was handsome...so incredibly handsome, popular, classy, intelligent. And me, well I considered myself to be average, no way would someone like him go out with a girl like me. But I built up the courage to confess my feelings to him anyway. And you know what, he surprised me by admitting he felt the same way. Happily together a year now, so go for it, tell her how you feel. You never know what will happen <3