What do you reckon?

[shadow85]

I need help, I am 25 and have been in only a handful of relationships most of them being under 3 months long, with the longest being 9 months. My new gf I have been with for a few months now and we fight alot like crazy, but I love her so much I can;t let her go for some reason. she is 18 and has been through so much more in relationships/sex/drugs/alcohol etc etc than I have. But she is a very genuine person at heart, and says she is ready to settle down, because she has been thru so much in her past relationships, one of them being 3 years long where she was cheated on several times in most of her relationships, I have to.

Now lately when we have serious fights and break up, she gets drunk with people maybe guys, I don't know, then she rings me up hours later or the next day balling her eyes out saying she can't be without me, and really needs me.

Now I am just wondering if she is saying this because she had a meaningless fling and needs her companion back? Because I don't wana stick around if that's the case, but she really insists that she did not do anything, I will never know? What do i do?

[Mathias]

Seems like you love the idea of being in a relationship.

By what you're talking about - it's obvious that you know you shouldn't be with her. Why are you still hanging on?

[shadow85]

Seems like you love the idea of being in a relationship.

By what you're talking about - it's obvious that you know you shouldn't be with her. Why are you still hanging on?

Hi thanks, but do you rekon you could elaborate a bit more on this? Why should I not hang on, and is she up to no good?

She just txt'd me this morning telling me about a shirt that I was after, she saw it at a store/ Is she trying to suck up koz she did something bad the night before?