So I was with this girl for three years and we broke up in January. Everything in the relationship was great but I moved away for a job in August. We talked a lot about marriage and she would have moved had I proposed. However, I didn't. I did move back though in June and we tried getting back together but I forced it a little and tried to get back to where we left off. This didn't sit well with her and she broke it off and said the feelings were gone. She then went on some dates with some guys and we tried getting back together after only a few weeks with no luck. Two months have now passed and we text each other about once a week but a couple weeks ago my emotions got the best of me. I told her to leave me alone and then the next day took it back and gave her the option of coffee or space. She chose coffee. We spoke tonight and she got cold feet about coffee. Said she didn't want to hurt me again by getting my hopes up (based on my flip flopping with the texts that my feelings/emotions may be running too strong still). I then said if she is seeing someone I dont want to interfere and maybe coffee was a bad idea. She then told me she is not seeing anyone and is single. She will call me back tomorrow and let me know how she feels. I even suggested waiting a couple months from now we meet but she didn't give any response to that. I'm not sure what to do going forward. Any idea what she may be feeling and how should I handle this? Any info would be greatly appreciated.