I blew it

[Mathias]

Mostly, the typical guy will likely ignore/block/ not talk to you. However, there are those of us that value truth over all else. Example: Had I been in his situation (with the detailing of still being MYSELF) I would have laughed and messaged you back, saying how strange you are and that I like honesty (with more dialog that would include asking you out on -another- cup of coffee...).

The main reason I believe that he won't contact you is due to the overwhelming amount of men that don't want crazy or serious, because to most guys, being SERIOUS = CRAZY!

Just relax, give it some time, if he contacts you--great! If he doesn't, its his loss. Really, it is. You sound pretty aggressive. That's a keeper in my book. <3


-Chris

This is good insight into why you have problems keeping good women, FWIW. This is nuts.

[Wakeup]

What do I think?! I say - DO IT. Don't hold back! He already saw the worst, why not give him a little of the best in kind words! Haha! DO IT - and if he doesn't contact you after that, Ppsshh- CHILL and ENJOY LIFE! =3 Let your hair down! hahaha!

I want some of what Chris is smokin.

OP: Just keep emailing/texting/phoning/sending notes via carrier pidgeon/UPS and snail mail. Soon he won't be able to resist your womanly wiles. O.o

[pisces25]

I think TheChris should hook up with the OP.

[TheChris]

I dont see what the big deal is about just trying to give it your best to make up from a bad situation. *shrugs* Yeah, I'd hook up with OP, sounds hawt. lol I have no rules.

[pisces25]

I dont see what the big deal is about just trying to give it your best to make up from a bad situation. *shrugs* Yeah, I'd hook up with OP, sounds hawt. lol I have no rules.

Sounds like you have no standards either

[Mathias]

I dont see what the big deal is about just trying to give it your best to make up from a bad situation.

We know. That's what's so bad.

[Vanessa]

This

I want some of what Chris is smokin.

OP: Just keep emailing/texting/phoning/sending notes via carrier pidgeon/UPS and snail mail. Soon he won't be able to resist your womanly wiles. O.o

and this

I think TheChris should hook up with the OP.

actually made me lol.

I don't blame the guy, I mean, you freaked out over nothing while you weren't even serious, who knows how you'll react when something actually happens? Move on and try getting a hold of yourself. Next time when you're about to do something like that think about it twice or more. Good luck.

[HeartIsAching]

Flipping out like that over something so minor was a huge red flag. I'd have dropped you like a lump of refined U-235.

[Wakeup]

I dont see what the big deal is about just trying to give it your best to make up from a bad situation. *shrugs* Yeah, I'd hook up with OP, sounds hawt. lol I have no rules.

Are you that "CTR" posting dude.. come to think of it I haven't seen his bs around here in a day or two.

[ashtonkutcher]

Wow, everything I missed. Whatever, I left him one last message telling him why I did and i'm sure it scared him more, but oh well. Next time I will think before I act for sure. I can't believe the stuff I have read on here. Vanessa said the most the most sensible thing, which is to move on. I made a big mistake because I as I explained to him, I got blocked by one omy friends before and now I assume everyone will do the same. It was a big deal to me because I had a crush on him and he had no clue about it so now he must know for sure and that also might have scared him away. Hasn't anyone here done something stupid like this before? I can't be the only one and you are all making me feel like I am crazy, when in reality I have been hurt so much in the past that I always assume people are out to get me. I am passive-aggressive, since I tend to keep it all to myself and then suddenly just let it all out at once.

[rafterman]

Hasn't anyone here done something stupid like this before? I can't be the only one and you are all making me feel like I am crazy, when in reality I have been hurt so much in the past that I always assume people are out to get me. I am passive-aggressive, since I tend to keep it all to myself and then suddenly just let it all out at once.

You should get that schizophrenia looked at. (FB healthy for the mind....NOT)

[surfhb]

Hasn't anyone here done something stupid like this before? I can't be the only one and you are all making me feel like I am crazy, when in reality I have been hurt so much in the past that I always assume people are out to get me. I am passive-aggressive, since I tend to keep it all to myself and then suddenly just let it all out at once.

Nope....never done anything like that. Not crazy but a little off balance perhaps. Your actions are not normal for most people

[Borealis]

If I were him I'd never want to talk to you again. You're a freak and a psycho. What kind of person would write that kind of thing? Stalker? That may not be you in your hearts of hearts but this is an interpretation from a normal guy. You have no chance, just let it go.

[ashtonkutcher]

Yeah I already feel really bad about myself and none of you are helping. Yeah I came off as a freak, but I think everything happens for a reason, maybe I was meant to scare him away because deep down I knew he didn't really like me as a person already. Yeah this is why i hate those social media websites, sometimes I get too wrapped up in them. If I can't convince none of you that I don't have a mental disorder, that's okay none of you really know me.

[surfhb]

Yeah I already feel really bad about myself and none of you are helping. Yeah I came off as a freak, but I think everything happens for a reason, maybe I was meant to scare him away because deep down I knew he didn't really like me as a person already. Yeah this is why i hate those social media websites, sometimes I get too wrapped up in them. If I can't convince none of you that I don't have a mental disorder, that's okay none of you really know me.

Wer'e not here to make you feel better about something stupid you did. That would not be helping you at all. You asked us what you can do at this point and you received some advice along with a ear full of "what the **** were you thinking" . Youre not mentally deranged ....you were just being a chick....LOL! Learn from it an move on!!!


First piece of advice.....quit Facebook and delete your account....its the worst thing to happen to human beings since cancer.....Seriously!!!