I love my girlfriend more than anything or anyone. I really do... She's friends with a few guys (she's grown up mostly with guys around her) and I don't really have a problem with that all too much, because I myself am friends with more females than males. But there are a couple guy friends of her's that I just can't help but worry about. I trust her. I know she'd never jeopardise what we have. But these guys give me a weird feeling. Especially one of them. He's constantly wanting to take her driving to places that barely any people go. So far, I've convinced her not to go driving with him, but he's started telling her that she shouldn't let me control her (I don't think I'm controlling... Just cautious and caring). I'm worried that he's trying to turn her against me and eventually will do something to her... I can't stand the thought of her with another guy. It tears me apart inside. She tells me that she can take care of herself, but I can't shake this feeling.
I had a similar feeling in my last relationship and my ex was raped by a guy that she considered 'her best friend'. She ended up killing herself. I can't have that happen with my current girlfriend. I've never loved anymore like I love her. I don't want to lose her for any reason, but I also don't want to be hurt when we get real far down the track... Is there a way I can stop this feeling and trust the trust she has in herself?