So I've just met an apparently confident and charismatic man on an internet marriage site. He lives in the states, and I live in Canada. We met on Skype about 5 days ago, and chatted for a while.
A couple days ago, I asked him how he felt about things so far and he said "I really like you" and "I'm not interested in most women, so you are unique". We talk about the future, I notice he uses the word "we" a lot, for example, we can do this or that in the future. He even says things like, well if we were to get married, we could do that, etc. I know that he has talked to his parents about me already. He asked me if I'm considering anyone else, I said no, and when I asked him the same question, he said, "Nope, certainly not."
So I thought he was really serious about me. But the thing that confuses me is that I feel like I am always the first one to initiate contact. I have been texting him everyday to just say hi. He responds back immediately or within a couple hours, and we go back and forth with texts for while, but he never asks to take it to the next level i.e talk on phone or skype.
So yesterday, I decided to stop all impulses and just NOT text him, to see if he would initiate contact. He didn't text me .
I don't want him to think I'm no longer interested by not texting him anymore. . At the same time, I want to verify how interested this guy really is. Should I just continue to wait for him to text me, or should I contact him first? how long should i wait?
Thanks!
Sara.