Hi,
I was wondering if I could get some insight into some issues. My boyfriend gets mad at me when I have to work on weekends and I am unable to see him. The thing is, he doesn't have a car. He will send me text messages demanding that I come see him. He doesn't ask, he tells. He was well aware that I would sometimes have to work long hours and sometimes on weekends, but gives me grief about it. He has a job and if that job sometimes needed him to work on weekends I wouldn't have a problem with it. I have also noticed that not once during this so called 2 month relationship, he hasn't said anything about coming to see me. He has many male friends and cousins in which he could ask to borrow their car from time to time. I don't think he plans on coming to see me at all or else he would be trying to find ways to get to me.
Another issue is that he is already talking about getting married and moving in together. I am not ready for that and have told him so. Even that gets him upset. We have not been together long enough for neither getting married nor moving in together. He lives with his sister and I feel that he is looking for a way out of that situation by any means possible.
He will tell me he loves me, but yet when I don't respond the way he thinks I should, he gets upset.
Any thoughts?