i kissed a guy

[ashtonkutcher]

And since then, I developed a crush on him. I hate how I get emotionally attached to guys once they kiss me, why can't I just not care? This guy doesn't even talk to me anymore, but I still think about him. I wish I never had kissed him, do any other people have this same problem I have?

[Yet another guy]

Yeah, that sucks. I have the same problem, but I don't even need to kiss a girl to crush on her. Usually some sort of attention showing on her part is enough.

[Jonahman]

Sometimes just a glance over the bar or a passing touch from above. That used to be the way years ago when a woman and a man could have a real crush from the looks that are passed towards each other.

[sadie_genie]

And since then, I developed a crush on him. I hate how I get emotionally attached to guys once they kiss me, why can't I just not care? This guy doesn't even talk to me anymore, but I still think about him. I wish I never had kissed him, do any other people have this same problem I have?

Sounds like you haven't kissed many guys before.

[moosegal]

Sounds like you haven't kissed many guys before.

I agree with sadie_genie ... you need to get out more.

[Belle13]

I just can remember my first kiss with my ex BF as if I'm floating in the air and can't imagine that I've kissed a guy. But in your situation maybe its just infatuation try to know the guy more.

[shylove]

I agree with sadie_genie ... you need to get out more.

I disagree.

I think it's sweet that you can form a crush so easily, same with 'yet another guy'.

[Yet another guy]

I think it's sweet that you can form a crush so easily, same with 'yet another guy'.

You may imagine it's sweet but I feel how painful and depressing it is.

[codnchips]

It is a chemical reaction thing, kissing is in many ways more intimate than sex. You can get a real head rush if it's the right person, not unusual to feel emotions for someone you've kissed but remember what you feel may not be the same as him!

[Yet another guy]

kissing is in many ways more intimate than sex.

How about kissing while having sex?

[manchild]

I am also similar to you yet another guy. I remember every single kiss with a girl. It means alot to me, i could never kiss just anyone. Dont change andything about yourself or the way you feel OP, because when you meet the right person for you, it will work in your favour.

[Mathias]

You may imagine it's sweet but I feel how painful and depressing it is.

Stop spreading your doom and gloom all over the place. Life is awesome. Quit pretending it's sucky, and sharing that suck with everyone else.

[bulrush]

Some people are more open with their emotions than others, and I think these people get crushes more easily. Just a theory. I have the occasional crush but nothing annoying, like serial crushes.

[aylie]

And since then, I developed a crush on him. I hate how I get emotionally attached to guys once they kiss me, why can't I just not care? This guy doesn't even talk to me anymore, but I still think about him. I wish I never had kissed him, do any other people have this same problem I have?

i wish i had this issue, ive kissed alot of guys ( wow that sounded bad) but im not a slut i just date a lot. its cute but dont let it get to u so bad. remember that it was just a kiss and start to let it go cause it will eat u up everyday if u keep thinkin about it.

[ashtonkutcher]

wow thanks everyone for the replies. Yeah I hate how i can't separate the kiss from the guy. It's been a month and I am trying to forget him because I scared him away, so i'm trying to see someone else. This time i will not kiss him too soon because that leads to attachment