I want to cheat

[Wakeup]

Yes , Wakeup , i also think she needs profesional help, i will insist that she goes to a specialist,she really must, also she is very moody because of this.

You need it just as much as she does. For you to stay with someone like her when you're only bf/gf and you don't even really like her, there is something wrong with you too. Most people would just leave her and then go on to have multiple partners and/or casual sexual hookups in order to scratch their itch. You? You want to keep a sick bitch by your side while you do it.

I dont wanna lose her because she is a good person that maybe can be healed through profesional help. Also she has a lot of 9 or 10 qualities, that are hard to find in other girls i think.

Most people who are not issued themselves and have a healthy self worth would leave her and once she "graduated" fk up psyche school, then they MIGHT consider being with her again but not until she proved her worth. What are these 9 or 10 qualities that you think are hard to find in other girls since you were a effing virgin when you met her... how would you know the difference?

I can get a girl easily, i think. Im tall, fit , have a nice face and im rich and friendly and i think im good in bed , my gf usually screams when we do it, in the begining , when she didnt work , we used to do it 2 times a day and she used to orgasm vaginaly. Now she is usually moody, cries or screams cause i dont wanna move in with her faster.... she is at the phase of moving in , im at the sexual experimenting phase and i dont wanna be a peon in her plan.

Ugh! You sound positively sociopathic. Please stay with her for life so neither of you inflict yourself on anyone else in the world. I suspect anyone you hook up with casually will be just as issued as you so no harm done there. Adult Friend Finder will be right up your ally. You deserve one another.. the best to both of you on your journey through your dysfunction... wear a rubber.

[smackie9]

Hey vanity, i meant she kinda uses me and conditiones me to please her need for a certain boyfriend
She wants the happy, strong and funny guy and i cant deliver all the time and she always cries i dont play enough attention to her.
She never does anything i like , on the contrary and im supose to do everything she likes , like a nice little slave clown . So you see , that is why im a bit selfish.

Dude your relationship sucks......just end it. Who says you can't find someone just as beautiful but with sexually comparability? Stop being such a weenie, and grow some balls......dump her and move on you silly ass.

[Sleed]

Wakeup you are mean without reason . Why are you so bitter? I havent done anything to you and i wish you all the good in the world , i might seem like an asshole but im just fed up with 2 years of arguing , sorry if i offended you , i didnt mean to.

[Vanity]

I can get a girl easily, i think. Im tall, fit , have a nice face and im rich and friendly and i think im good in bed

Girls don't usually go for cocky assholes... Oh and the also attend to avoid men that are known to cheat. Just saying. =\

Im supose to do everything she likes , like a nice little slave clown . So you see , that is why im a bit selfish.

she is at the phase of moving in , im at the sexual experimenting phase and i dont wanna be a peon in her plan.

I agree with Wakeup, you seems sociopathic...and creepy.

[Wakeup]

Wakeup you are mean without reason . Why are you so bitter? I havent done anything to you and i wish you all the good in the world , i might seem like an asshole but im just fed up with 2 years of arguing , sorry if i offended you , i didnt mean to.

I'm not bitter, this has nothing to do with me so don't turn the spot light away from yourself by trying to put it on me. I'm just holding a mirror up to you and you're getting a glimpse of who you are as seen by an unbiased person (me) and everyone else in this thread. This is how you look to us You project an image of codependency, and a person who is addicted to drama, narcissistic and self-absorbed.

If you're "fed up with 2 years of arguing" then get the hell away from her, break up and go on your merry way of experimenting with all the woman who will have you.

[Sleed]

I came here to get a man's opinion , not to be grilled by two wonderful women .

Can i get a guys oppinion on this "cheating on the angry and tired " girlfriend?

[smackie9]

I came here to get a man's opinion , not to be grilled by two wonderful women .

Can i get a guys oppinion on this "cheating on the angry and tired " girlfriend?

You did.....

[simmo]

If you don't want to lose her, don't cheat. If you cheat I hope she finds out and dumps your ass. Speaking from the side who got cheated on, NOTHING I have experienced compares to the pain I suffered from finding out about it, and I've ****ing seen someone I love kill themselves. So screw you for even thinking of doing this to someone you "love." I don't know how you can live with yourself. You will hurt her like nothing else I can promise you this.

[IndiReloaded]

If you want to cheat, then cheat. Just don't cry about the consequences later. Yes, it makes you an asshole, but you seem prepared to live with this. So shrug.

Most people in your situation would simply break up with their partner and then sow their oats. If you get her back lucky you, if you don't there are other girls out there. Life is full of choices.

Just remember: if you cheat on her, she will eventually find out and it will be the end of this relationship. Maybe you won't even care by then. But, future partners can and do judge you by how your previous relationships end and why. Something to think about. Good luck Sleed, the wannabe Steed.

[Sleed]

Why would i tell my next girlfriend how my relationship broke up? Why would i say im a cheater? Ill just say we didnt get along after some time and we did split.

[Kyrina]

Easy you want your cake and eat it she is good enough for you for many reasons, bad to you for many reasons, this is not a healthy relationship if it was you wouldn't want to cheat and people here are telling you the right thing by their opinion and the actions they would seek and do.
You can't have it both ways, you want sex, she is psycho fixated on things but then again aren't you and your need to cheat.
To be honest she is not the only nice person in the world with so many good reasons to be with you really need to man up and leave the relationship BEFORE cheating or find another outlet for your sexual experimental needs.
Wake up and the others have offered you good advice so do your list of pro's of con's then make a mature decision, of staying or getting out.
Once you cheat you damage the other person for a long time and she is already tender dont be responsible for that emotional baggage.
Make a decision take the advice its given to help you see the errors and trials hence help you be someone worth knowing not a cheater it will haunt you later on

[IndiReloaded]

Why would i tell my next girlfriend how my relationship broke up? Why would i say im a cheater? Ill just say we didnt get along after some time and we did split.

LOL, you are naive if you think you telling her is the only way these things come out. Best you don't fish from the same pond. Anyway, like I said, if you are determined to be an asshole who are we to tell you otherwise? Personally, I don't think guys like you are that hard to spot so any girl you manage to cheat on probably deserves what she gets, if only for being stupid. Nice, together guys tend to find nice, together girls. Assholes and idiots tend to find likewise. Now go away and do your thing, shoo fly.

[HeartIsAching]

No woman is worth a lack of sex life . This is a selfish view but she is also selfish with me , she wants me around to cheer her up like a personal clown , she wants me to be there to wake her up like a personal clock and i have to respect all her little psycho fixations. She is super selfish in this relationshipt and i have no problem being that way also.

And absolutly no woman is worth a lack of sex life. What if i experiment and she doesnt catch me? If i have a sex girl on the side, that i want only for sex and she wants me only for sex, that would be the sex life.

If that's the case, why do you care about losing her? You obviously have no feelings for her, or you wouldn't cheat. So, no feelings, inadequate sex life, she's got psycho fixations and she's super selfish, as well as needy... so what's keeping you from breaking up? Her looks?

Damn that's shallow.

[HeartIsAching]

I have to ask why you want to keep her when it appears that you don't even like her much. Is it because she's hot and you don't think you'll be able to pull another like her? Is it because you're afraid that another girl won't want you as a sex partner so you want to keep her on your hook because once a month is better than no times a month? What is it. What do you actually love about her that makes you want to keep her while you try to get extra curricular pootang on the side?

Haha damn... should've figured you'd already covered this. D'oh!

[surfhb]

I came here to get a man's opinion , not to be grilled by two wonderful women .

Can i get a guys oppinion on this "cheating on the angry and tired " girlfriend?

OK....Youre an idiot to stay with this girl. You sound like a prick

Just one male's opinion