hi guys, my boyfriend and i have been dating for about 3 and a half years now, he is a guy who finds it easier to interact wit gals more than guys..so u find everytime he gets a new job the new friends he has are girls...we resolved the issue by jus keeping all friendships very transparent he tells me about it and i tell him about it... we also have a rule that if he has girl - friend s ther should not be any after calls after work same goes for me with my guy - friends to avoid missunderstandings..i have not yet experienced any infidelity problems from him yet or maybe he is jus good at hiding it.. lately he doesnt reply my text messages or emails...im the one who calls him everynight to say goodnight but sometimes he does call too but not as often as i do but also he makes it a point to always call and say goodmorning and wish me a good day...

so sometimes i end up thinking that cud he have his friends calling him and texting him soo much after work that im not important compared to them now or wat?or maybe he jus wants to be talking to someone different, a girl that is...?its really bothering me me... we dont stay together..and sometimes he says that he will be tired from work...am i being paranoid????
and the whole issue of him being tired from work is affecting our sex life..coz he is jus too tired...ad its frustrating. please help guys...im diply in love with him but the whole routine is killing me...