In a long distance relationship, and always when its 2 weeks or so before we meet, she ask me not to come and stay away from porn etc. till we are together.
why?
of course i asked her about this, but she just shrugs and go like, "just bcuz"
ps. im 24, she's 25
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13-09-11, 10:51 PM #1
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My GF wants me to hold myself. why?
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13-09-11, 11:05 PM #2
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Maybe She just wants to savor a full load instead of a few drops? Maybe she wants you to finish quickly? (do you normally take for ever?) Tell her you're going to wank away until you can't get it up for her unless she tells you her motives for wanting this... Say it with a big grin.
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13-09-11, 11:21 PM #3
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Made me smile. Thx for the feedback.
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13-09-11, 11:48 PM #4
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Based on the title of this thread, I thought she wanted you to umm.... HOLD yourself.
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
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Vash took the words right from my mouth (or fingers)
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14-09-11, 11:17 PM #6
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The longer you wait between orgasms, the more "volume" you will have. She might like the volume.
I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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15-09-11, 04:33 AM #7
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It sounds like some sort of bdsm orgasm control thing, pretty damn sexy imo! So do you comply? Does she like to get a little bossy in other areas of your sex life?
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