Smells like bullshit

[Bullshit]

Met this woman on PoF. Through texts, emails and phone convo. It seemed she was head over heels.

She was surprised I messaged her.
Kept complimenting me so many times I lost count through text, email and phone calls.
Was excited to meet me in person.
Hoped things would work out between us or she would be sad.
Asked me if I would ask her out the first time we had met, I told her "don't you think that's a bit too soon? don't get me wrong I really like you and I'm not going anywhere".
Asked me If I would marry her, might as well, you got no one else in line?
Told me numerous times... "be mine"
Kept wanting to snuggle with me and wanted me to snuggle her before we met.
Told me, we would make beautiful babies.
.. and a bunch of other things I can't remember right now.

First off I don't even know why I care about this. Perhaps its because she told me this... " Get off of pof ya don't need that stuff anymore."... So I think to myself LOL? Okay I log off of PoF and never log on again till after our first date. We both said we wouldn't log onto PoF.

Thought you weren't going on PoF?
Isn't logging on, being on PoF? LoL
Are you sure your not bull shitting me? If you don't log on, you wouldn't be online, just saying sweety.

I'm not its logged on, my phone.
Like its an app on my phone I never logged out
I logged on the other day.. and never logged off is what I'm saying.

So I stayed up till her PoF account was no longer online. So if she logged online again... doesn't that mean she was not online? I don't know how the PoF phone App works.

I knew there was a good chance she would pursue other guys on there which is a given, were not even together so big deal right? Well I don't like being lied too... and it's pointless to call her out again for being online but why even say that shit or agree to something if your not going to go through with it???? Seems pointless and it causes drama that shouldn't be.

[Wakeup]

You're causing your own drama by continuing on in a type written dialogue with this woman without having never met her yet. WTH is going to log off their account for good for someone they've never even met. Get off the computer and get out there and meet her and if you hit it off in real life then and only then even consider ditching your bloody account.

Your whole situation is ridiculous. How can you "snuggle" with someone you've not yet met? How can you believe someone who hasn't met you and is talking already about babies and marriage. Run like hell from her. I suggest the next one who is good enough to reply to your email, make sure you meet her sooner rather than later so you can see if the connection is real, based on actions not words said over the internet.

If you have met her in person then your Opening Post is convoluted and gives the impression that you've never set eyes on her real self in an one on one meet.

P.S. From what I understand from another thread, the phone app does not log you out. *shrugs* for what it's worth.

[Bullshit]

We met in person, yesterday. She is normal in person. We went for a walk, watched a movie at my place.

Snuggled, made out, eskimo kisses, massages etc. Caressed and sucked her breasts and so on. We never had sex and don't plan on it right away since we both want to get to know the person more and once the sex starts that's a bit difficult haha since were both horny nymphs.

[misombra]

get married. have 100 kids.

[Wakeup]

So why does your whole thread read like you've never met her?

What exactly do you want us to guess at here? Is it about her phone app and whether or not she's logging on then? My suggestion is If you don't like being lied to then quit sucking her breasts until you find out if she's actually a liar or not.

[Bullshit]

So why does your whole thread read like you've never met her?

What exactly do you want us to guess at here? Is it about her phone app and whether or not she's logging on then?

I thought this was enough here to say... "till after our first date."

Sorry I didn't ask a question. Yes it is about her phone app and whether or not she's logging on. This is what I've noticed, It reads "online today", than it would read "online now". You mentioned in your first post it doesn't log them out, right? Why would it say " online today " meaning she logged out?

[Cerby]

Where is she from? This sounds like a chick I managed to dodge the bullet with on PoF, wanted a ton of shit, gave me crap for going on PoF after we started talking, etc. Eventually I told her until we were exclusively dating I would continue to keep options open and she f*cking lost it.

Also, as a PoF veteran, it takes about 30 minutes for the system to register a log out, anything after that means she has been online.

[Bullshit]

Where is she from?

Also, as a PoF veteran, it takes about 30 minutes for the system to register a log out, anything after that means she has been online.

She's from Nova Scotia. The night I noticed she was online, when I went to bed I refreshed my browser and it said she was "online today", so If it read online now or chat or whatever that means she was online again? But what she is saying is with this phone app it doesn't log you out?

[Cerby]

The phone app never requires you to log in, but does note the last time you were active in the app as your login time.

If it says "Online now" that means she had the app active in the last 30 minutes.

So something is fishy about this. Personally, it shouldn't matter, both me and my gf were active on PoF for several weeks after we started dating before we made things exclusive, but it is hypocritical that she asks you to get off it while she continues to fish.

[Wakeup]

I thought this was enough here to say... "till after our first date."

Sorry I didn't ask a question. Yes it is about her phone app and whether or not she's logging on. This is what I've noticed, It reads "online today", than it would read "online now". You mentioned in your first post it doesn't log them out, right? Why would it say " online today " meaning she logged out?

My daughter's single friend uses "Plentyoffvckbuddies" and she just told me It takes about 3 days for the "Online today" to read "Online this week." (if she's not logging on everyday) If it changes from 'Online this week" to "Online today' again then she's still logging on. What her motive for logging back on though you need to find out from her as it could be to continue fishing or to just answer email from those she's been previously corresponding with.

[Bullshit]

Yep, after her having a long day I asked her if I could call her. She says cant right now I'm with a co- worker, so I say okay, another time. Than we text a few more times and she says call me right now, I'm about to pass out.
We talk for 10 minutes and then she says her best friend texted me and wants me to call her (apparently she's got this intestine issue and she's lost alot of weight this is what she told me a few days after we met online)
Any ways we say good night and she's back on PoF. So I'm like this is stupid, I'm logging onto my real account instead of my friends account.

I'm probably not going to mention it too her, but if she brings it up to me... that's just retarded. I really am not sure if I should or shouldn't bring it up since were not even officially seeing each other. I shake my head at why even bring up... me being online and than tell me right to my face your no longer going to log online into PoF.

and go figure her profile says "I don't have time for people to mess around and play head games"

[Hth]

Maybe you guys haven't got exclusive and she's trying to get More back up? If that's the case, she's not honest, this won't be a very bright start.

[Bullshit]

We are definitely not exclusive... when she mentioned this... Asked me if I would ask her out the first time we had met, I told her "don't you think that's a bit too soon? don't get me wrong I really like you and I'm not going anywhere".

About 3/4 through the date I'm thinking to myself wow this chick is great and is awesome as she is online. So my plan to take things slow got the best of me.
I say " I enjoy your company " and she says the same thing.

So I say.. " do you want to be exclusive? "
She said something, I honestly can't remember (sigh)
So I say... " just like what I had mentioned to you before? about taking the time to get to know each other. "
She said .. " yeah "
I say ... " okay " and than we both smile at each other and kiss each other.

That night she says "You're a nice guy. I need to chill more... Need to feel the spark"
So Yeah we are not exclusive.

Edit... After thinking about it, I'm really confident that not too many guys are in my class which makes me stand out and far way from the normal guy my age. On the phone she mentioned to me that she had two guys burn her and from the time she broke up with her most recent serious relationship, those are probably the only 2 date relationships she's had. So I think it's best I just let this slide. Instead of sorting this out.

[MerryH]

Why do you care so much about her pof profile when there are much bigger issues to be concerned with, like the fact that she's ****ing insane?

When people talk about marrying you and having your babies and start dictating what you can and can't be doing before you've ever even met each other, just cut and run before you get too involved with crazy.

[IndiReloaded]

Is this another of those 'online site' threads I get to make fun of? Why does anyone really care who logged on when and for how long. LOL.