Is my man stingy? Want male perspective.

[Sonrisa]

That's good that you know what you will and will not tolerate. If all people were that decisive then we'd hardly have a broken heart amongst us because people would exit stage left when the red flag raises instead of ignoring it and falling in love with someone who they can't tolerate.


Anyway... last thread about this subject you ended up calling me a cunt for my views on the men being expected to pay so I'l agree that we disagree on this topic.

hey, i called you a cunt cuz i thouight that you were a guy lol

[TheSingleGuy]

I agree with an earlier message. Pay for the next 3 or 4 or 5 dates, see if he ever "insists" or if he lets you pay every time. That might not be enough, but, especially if he knows you make less than him, and allows you to pay for 3, 4 or 5 dates in a row, without every paying for anything, then you will know your answer.

Trying to figure out if he's stingy from this one instance is not possible because you two have been going dutch all along. To expect anything different now would be a bit assumptive in my opinion.

[shpadoinklejoe]

He should pay, especially because you are going just for him. It is possible he doesn't want you to go, and he's asking you to pay because this way he knows you won't go if you have to pay for yourself.