In man world...

[miss.scarlet11]

So I got home tonight, did the dishes, cleaned up for a minute, and hopped in bed for a 3 hour work-a-thon. My last goal for the evening was to clear off my bedside table. And I found it. Apparently a woman who works with my boyfriend has been pursuing him. Now I don't know if he purposefully left it for me to read, if it was an accident, or a passive aggressive way to incite a break-up.
Funny enough, Saturday night I told him that it was inevitable that she'd hit on him. Sometimes I hate being right. I'll gladly provide some of the text from the email for more context. There is nothing specific about them hooking up or having more than a 'going for a beer after work' relationship.

I texted him and asked that he give me a call...nothing.

I'm furious but also doing the benefit of the doubt game. Any suggestions?

[James Banes]

Bring it up now. Why let anger burn inside you? Maybe have a talk with her too. That crap was rude of her.

[Mathias]

Maybe have a talk with her too. That crap was rude of her.

This won't end well.

OP - your beef is with your boyfriend. Address it directly, non-accusatory, and make sure you get a real answer.

[tehwarlock]

'it' being what? A UFO?

[confusedman2011]

So what did you find exactly? An e-mail of her asking your boyfriend to go out? Like Mathias said, confront your boyfriend directly about it, be calm and don't let him beat around the bush.