Dreaming

[knights68]

In a relationship for 5+ years now, but the last two or so have been difficult. Our physical life is a joke, her mental status is a bit questionable in my mind, and just overall I am not very happy and quite frustrated.
So in the last 6 months maybe, I have had a few dreams where I am making out with ladies I know in real life (two co-workers, one friend out West).

It is troubling to me for obvious reasons and am debating a few things...
1) Should I tell the girlfriend of these dreams and how they are troubling to me
2) Does this mean perhaps it is time to split?

I am just not sure anymore about us. I am tired of waiting for thigs to get better between us when she is having medical issues (yet she is doing nothing about it to improve things) but dont wanna pull a John Edwards either. Granted the girlfriend is only having hormonal imbalnces and such, but it's not that she is having the issues it is the fact she is doing nothing about it, remaining complacent and I am left frustrated and angry all the time.

[vashti]

You shouldn't make any decisions to leave a person based on a sexual dream. If you want to leave her, then do it, but you will look like a nutcase if you tell her it's because you had this dream....

[devonbrown]

Dreams are nothing to base a decision on for your relationship. My advice - talk to her. Discuss the things that are bothering you and that are bothering her. But do it calmly and without accusation. You two have been together for 5 years, I would hope that you two have some sort of communication abilities. And remember that good communication means talking openly AND listening.

Good luck.