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    Checking you out

    Sometimes when you look at women they smile back at you and other times they get scared of you, why the hell is that?

    What is the difference? Is it in the guy or the girl?

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    If they are getting scared, you are most likely being too aggressive.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    Quote Originally Posted by vashti View Post
    If they are getting scared, you are most likely being too aggressive.
    Too agressive? You mean staring too intensly?

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    Yes probably too intense. Women are a bit more sensitive to subtle body language stuff usually. Try to be relaxed and polite and never 'stare'. Just smile nicely. Think Brad Pitt, not Gene Simmons.





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    Just smile with no intensity?

    Personally I smile back only if I like what I see. Otherwise, I pretend not to see. Can't say anything about 'being scared' cos I would have just ignored if I didn't like....?!

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    I've been scared before, and so has my daughter. Actually, its hard to imagine there is a female alive who hasn't been looked at THAT aggressively.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    Big bulging eyes, staring, a creepy smile, raised eyebrows, or a combination of all of that can for sure scare.
    Subtle nice/sweet looking smiles are always nice and have positive reactions from ladies in most cases.

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