I was wondering...

[Joe_Alexander]

Well heres my situation, I am 20 year old male, i have a problem with being shy, I have never really been in a relationship before, I don't drink, I live in a small town where there are no malls or clubs or anywhere to meet women, and I have no friends to set me up with a date. So my question is what should I do or where to go to meet single women? any advice would be helpfull.

[doll69]

Are there any activities availablein your area which interests you? E.g. volunteering, recreational activities etc. That's probably a good place.

[pianoplayer]

well...

how big is your town? is it a "don't blink" town? Population 10?

oh... elk city... i just your profile... hold on... let me check the pop. on the internet...

it says on elkcity.com... 30 mile radius population... it looks like greater than 50,000. So there has to be at least ONE girl you can talk to!!


hre's my advice... go to the most popular hangout, and just talk to the best looking gal around... use a funny "pickup line or something. look for ideas. you know your town better than we do...

about overcoming shyness, heres what i have to offer: forget all the pills and crap. use "empathy." that means... think to your self "what would I think if a person said this, did this, approached me this way, told this joke. etc." because if you aren't wieirded out by it... chances are they aren't either. it just seems like it, but they REALLY ARE NOT JUDGING YOU. everythime you find your self shy, think "they are not judgeing me" ovber and over and over... it helps a lot.

i mean, whats there to lose?... "it is better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved... "-shakespere

[pianoplayer]

i meant "i just read your profile..." not "i just your profile"

sorry

[Junket]

i meant "i just read your profile..." not "i just your profile"

sorry

yeah dude, you can edit the post you know