I've been dating this guy for a few months. Sex was great at first but lately I've been getting boredWe've tried new positions but nothing worked. Any tips?
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10-10-11, 04:31 PM #1
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Bored of sex. Any tips?
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10-10-11, 04:44 PM #2
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location, role play, foreplay, toys..the list goes on
I don't know, a mere few months of exciting sex doesn't sound quite right, do you actually feel compatible with him?
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10-10-11, 07:12 PM #3
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Does he make you orgasm?
"Never make someone your priority, when to them you are only an option"
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11-10-11, 05:22 AM #4
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What superfantastich said - if you're bored of sex already maybe there is a compatibility issue. That said, if you really care about this man there are definitely ways you can spice things up for the both of you.
I like watching porn with my partner when I'm having a hard time getting in the mood. Sometimes we try to replicate what we're seeing on the screen lol. You could also change things up like try having sex outdoors, throw some light bondage into the mix, and try to tease each other throughout the day with sexy text messages, pictures, touching, so that you're more wound up when it gets down to things. Sometimes keeping sex fun and interesting takes a little bit of effort, but that effort is almost always more than rewarding in the end!
Good luck
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20-10-11, 05:40 AM #5
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Are you attracted to him mentally or emotionally? That might be the problem.
Other than that, you have to think about fantasies you might want to try. Do you want to be tied up? Dominated? Used forcefully? Do you want him to take you to dinner and whisper naughty things in your ear that no one else can hear? That will get you thinking what is coming soon.
Do you want a bubble bath with candles and soft music? Followed by a bedroom full of candles?
Just be honest with yourself. And try to talk to him about it.I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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20-10-11, 05:47 AM #6
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If you are getting bored of sex maybe you should kool it for awhile and go do other activities to occupy your time. Let the urge build up so things get hot again. The others advice is good too, porn, toys, role playing, different locations, sex in public, etc.
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I've been dating this guy for a few months. Sex was great at first but lately I've been getting bored We've tried new positions but nothing worked. Any tips?
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20-10-11, 05:49 AM #7
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Maybe you are not getting great enough Os......read up on full body orgasms.
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