Him and porn..

[SapphireBerry]

So here is the scenario, my boyfriend is currently miles away from me and he's coming back in December. When we were on the phone tonight he said that he has a small collection of lesbian porn he's had from years ago and when he got really turned on one morning, he started to jack off whilst thinking about me and looking at pics of me, then he said he watched a video of two lesbian girls going at it, but said he was thinking about me and possibly like a twin/clone of me if I had one doing what the girls were doing in the video (I remember we talked about that fantasy once), but I'm not happy with the whole thing cuz I feel like here I am whilst he's watching videos of other girls to help him get off, I could probably speculate that this is stemming from some insecurity issues I may have but how can you interpret this? Should I just get over it and accept the fact that maybe every so often he's gonna do it? I'm also winding myself up a bit I know and he has said porn is not important to him at all and he was thinking about me which is pretty much what got him off in the first place..

But please can someone just give me a little advice? Tell me whether or not I should put this one to bed?

[rafterman]

Well atleast he's just fapping off to it, and not shagging someone else....relax.

[Yet another guy]

There's no reason you should be upset over what he did. It's perfectly normal and there's nothing wrong with it.
So, to answer your question: Yes, it would be best if you accept and just get over it.
You're probably right about your insecurity being the issue here. I hope you can overcome that

[workingman78]

He is just looking for release, don't take it personally. If you want to see if porn is just porn to him, send him something of your own making.