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    If a friend said this...? (female conversation)

    So basically, my friend #1 had a crush on a really good looking guy and was talking to my other friend #2 about it (she also thinks he's good looking). But friend #2 mentioned to friend #1 that the good looking guy probably goes for "those pretty girls."

    Should friend #1 be offended or anything?

    What do you guys think?

    Also, what do you guys think when a friend says something they don't like about your appearance?


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    I'm not female, so I can't answer your "key question"

    But when someone says they don't like something about your appearance, that's their problem. They should take you for who you are.

    On the other hand: when someone says to me that I have bad breath, I'm grateful for it. I hate it when people have really foul breath so I don't want to be someone like that.
    But when someone says they don't like the fact that I have long hair..that's something they're going to have to live with

    Hope this helps a little
    Can someone please explain what is so great about constantly being reminded of that which you cannot have?

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    Thanks a lot for your positive input! And yes, it helps more than "a little" !

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    i agree with metalphoenix
    same for the smell-part, when it's something i can help they should really tell me

    but when it's something like: i hate how your nose looks...
    i'm not gonna pay thousands of dollars to get a nose correction!

    but i guess i would be offended a bit in your situation (even though i'm a guy ^^)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Drumzzz View Post
    i agree with metalphoenix
    same for the smell-part, when it's something i can help they should really tell me

    but when it's something like: i hate how your nose looks...
    i'm not gonna pay thousands of dollars to get a nose correction!

    but i guess i would be offended a bit in your situation (even though i'm a guy ^^)
    i agree! and yes...how could you NOT be offended? hah. but i suppose it's something you just have to brush off your shoulder .
    Last edited by OhHowLovely; 15-11-11 at 03:54 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by OhHowLovely View Post
    i agree! and yes...how could you NOT be offended? hah. but i suppose it's something you just have to brush off your shoulder .
    i like how you can just let it go
    wish i could be like that too, cause i couldn't stop thinking about it

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