These Dreams

[Kyouhen]

So I've been broken up with my ex for over a year and a half now. The break up was quite difficult for me, but I've grown for the most part over it.

I haven't dated since then, so it's probably because I have no one new in my life just yet.

But I have these dreams of her every so often that invokes these strong emotions for her. She's moved on already, and I should be to.

But I'm just wondering if I should seek counseling to help me get over these feelings, and over these dreams.

I largely haven't dated due to disinterest.

I mean, if you have been in this situation, what did you do to help?

[bluesummer]

I have strong emotional dreams about people I dated 10 years ago....and I'm happily married. It's just your subconscious tapping into old memories and feelings, it doesn't mean anything. You don't need counselling, you need to stop dwelling on it so much and maybe just go meet some new girls.

[jen91]

Totally agree with blue. I have dreams about people I've dated...some good and some not so much. Relationships make impressions on your life and your subconscious will never let you completely forget...as badly as you may want to!

[hopegrace]

You should start dating ASAP