Hey guys,
Apologies if intimacy questions don't belong here.
I've been dating my boyfriend for about a month now. I am 25 and he is 35.
We have had sex very few times, it seems that he's not often in the mood. He has pushed away my advances before. Which is different for me since I am used to very physical honeymoon stages of a new relationship. I take sex very personally since I am such a physical person and that is one way I fee attractive andl cared for. So this has caused a lot of unnecessary worry for me.
When we do have sex, he never cares to get off. He is almost anxious about it and wants to stop after I have gotten off. What does that say to you men here?
I have asked him if he's just not into me, and he says he is really really into me. That the sex thing is his own issue and nothing that I am doing wrong. Just curious if you guys know of any reasons a guy would struggle with this?