Is this what oral sex is supposed to feel like?

[Mark1]

Very inexperienced here, I have only received a BJ from one woman.

All she did was move her head back and forth. No spit, no eye contact, no licking, and even some teeth.

I tried to direct her, but she would have none of it. Really pissed me off.

Anyways, is that normal? To just go back and forth with no variety like that? Have i been porned out?

The reason I ask, is because I have stopped seeing this woman, and have been invited over for a "movie" by another woman Im seeing. just wondering what to expect as far as feeling.

[smackie9]

You have been porned out. If you want it done a specific way hire a prostitute....they are there to do it any way you like. OR buy some nice jewelry for your next GF.

Tip Most guys are not picky about how a bj is done, they are just happy to be getting one. Your interpretation of sex has been distorted by watching porn....they are designed for a male audience to fulfill male sexual fantasy.....not what the majority of women enjoy. That is why a lot of women find porn disgusting. Those girl are paid to pretend they like it....it's acting. So you better tone down your expectations.

If you find yourself in a serious relationship, the emotional connection you two have will enhance the sex, and later with communication, she will fulfill some of your desires because she loves you, that's how it works. If it's just a casual thing, you can't be making demands, to them you are damn lucky to be getting anything.

[smackie9]

Also every person is different with sex, just like different penis sizes, vagina sizes, desires, fetishes, fantasies, likes and dislikes.......happy hunting.

[valmont]

sounds like inexperience..the more a girl enjoys sex in general, the more she cares about you, the more comfortable she is with herself and how many times she's done it will reflect on the quality of a bj.

[bulrush]

I tried to direct her, but she would have none of it. Really pissed me off.

A girl who really cares about you will take your suggestions seriously. And you should do the same. Sounds like that girl has some serious sexual hangups. Try to find someone more open-minded.

Heck, if I wanted my gf to dress up like Catwoman and eat Cocoa Pebbles from a cat bowl, she'd probably do it just for the fun of it! lol.

[smackie9]

It wasn't that kind of relationship I'm sure....wasn't even close it one I imagine.

[bulrush]

Oh, I see.

I tried to direct her, but she would have none of it.

Yeah, that's pretty common for immature people not to want direction, or to take simple direction as a personal insult. It's not normal, but very common.

[brke.rose]

no. she sounds inexperienced.

experienced women know how to do it. it just takes time for them to be confident doing it. if you are with a girl that you really like, make her feel comfortable and let her know when she does something you like. remember, positive reinforcement.

[Mathias]

You have been porned out. If you want it done a specific way hire a prostitute....they are there to do it any way you like. OR buy some nice jewelry for your next GF.

This kind of response makes me sad.

[smackie9]

Tongue and cheek my friend.

[smackie9]

I don't think it was a lack of experience, but a lack of passion......she just wasn't that into you dude.

[vashti]

I don't think it was a lack of experience, but a lack of passion......she just wasn't that into you dude.

I disagree. If she wasn't into him, why put the penis in the mouth at all?

I am going with inexperience.

[smackie9]

OK a combination of inexperience (which would explain other things) and too high of expectations.....