Strange behaviour

[sadie_genie]

There is this guy who has messages me random texts like ": )", ": (", "Hey", "Michelle!", etc to my phone once in awhile for the past 6 months although I ignore many of them because I don't know what he wants. He always suggest that we meet up but then plans never materialize because I guess we are both lazy. I just find it really strange that he has continued to message me random messages. What do you think he wants?

[sadie_genie]

Ok, the lastest text was

Him: ": ("
Me: "why are you sad"?
Him: "because we haven't talked".

[leoben]

If he isn't solid when it comes to making plans then he probably just wants the rush guys get from flirting with women we know might sleep with us.

[sadie_genie]

He asked me again just now saying "I want to see you if that is okay with you".

You might be right about him just doing it for the rush.

However, I think it might have to do with me too. He asked me to hang out with him at a specific day a few times before but I turned it down because I was busy. I feel bad because it is always bad timing. Whenever he asks, it is usually the busy time of the year.

I forgot to add: we actually did make plans one time but I brought my gay friend with me. When he saw that I brought him, he just left.

[Drumzzz]

i think he just wants to be alone with you but doesn't want to come over pushy...
try to initialize a meeting yourself, i bet he takes it without hesitation

[DoesntMatter]

American men are better.

[stuckies]

If he isn't solid when it comes to making plans then he probably just wants the rush guys get from flirting with women we know might sleep with us.

OP - his name isn't Ryan is it? lol

[bulrush]

I think he is testing the waters to see if you like him. In this post, you have not indicated you like him, one way or the other.