Getting off with a vibrator

[bcgirl]

My husband bought me a vibrator as a gift. It was meant to be used with the both of us to add some fun in between the bed sheets. I've been having amazing orgasms with my vibrator and have been noticing that lately i'm preferring to masterbate with my vibrator alone instead of having sex with him. I like being able to control it, plus it makes me orgasm faster. I feel guilty about it, but a vibrator can go a certain speed which no man's tongue can achieve. This question is for the ladies.....do you find yourself having more fun sometimes with just yourself and your vibrator?

[bulrush]

Or, you can involve him sometimes when you use the vibrator. Have him lie next to you and kiss and caress you, while you take care of business. Masterbating doesn't have to be solo.

[valmont]

exactly why guys jerk off as much as we do ;-)!

[AutumnxMayWho]

I had the same problem at one point. I was getting myself off so much faster than with my guy so I almost didn't bother having sex with him anymore! Finally at one point he just went all dominant on me (which was HOT) and got me all hot and bother before pulling me up to ride him. He then promptly handed me my vibrator, put his hands behind his head, and said "Now get off" Obviously not literally haha. But after that we had more fun taking the vibrator to bed with us than just me alone. Try, the key word is TRY to slow down on the solo acts and bring your man back into the room. It's tough but it can be done, and its so worth it.

[bulrush]

Yep. Touch the vibrator to his penis while he's inside you, then see how you like it. Try different things. There doesn't have to be direct vibrator contact on you, per se.

[Beckyboo]

Perhaps your vibrator is just better than your husband.

[Illusional]

damn these machines... well then again, a sex doll is always tight. i guess we can't complain either.


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[smackie9]

I find porn is much better....

[Benni]

I find porn is much better....

That definitely works, too.

[bcgirl]

well the thing is, i just feel as though my vibrator can do the job in 5 minutes. My hubby takes a lot longer than 5 minutes....more like 45 minutes. It's just when he finishes in 6 minutes, I'm not fully satisfied yet unless he finishes me off by going down on me. He'll be down there for a good 40 minutes each time. It's nice that he never complains, but I just wish i could come a bit quicker. It's impossible for a tongue that flicks as fast as the high speed of a vibrator.

[smackie9]

He needs to use his hand and rub you like how you masturbate along with tongue......it will be faster trust me.
........Maybe suggest to him to do some reading on g- spot techniques.

[islandgurl]

I LOVE my vibrator!! Nothing works like your vibrator and I cant say I blame you. I LOVE being a woman.