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    Keep trying or just move on?

    I have a casual friend in one of my college classes. We chit chat all the time about whatever. Even had one of those accidentally she touches my hand, I touch her hand moments. Anyway one day I figured what the heck and I gave her my number and told her to call me sometime. That was three days ago and still no call, but I have talked to her a couple times since than, and there has been no awakardness at all. In other words it was not like "Gee, I hope he does not think I am going to call him, or whatever".

    What do you think? We are not close friends, so that just best friends relationship is not there. She does go to school full time plus has two kids so there is the possibility that she is busy.

    You know I swear no matter how old you get too me this stuff will always be confusing. I miss the days when you just write a note that says "Do you like me?" and check either the yes box or no box. BTW, yeah I guess I should have got her number instead of giving mine. Thanks.

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    She's busy taking care of kids and going to school. I doubt she has time for males, and even if she makes time for them, it probably wouldn't be with the one who expects her to initiate the calling.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    Quote Originally Posted by ErikEverhard View Post
    BTW, yeah I guess I should have got her number instead of giving mine. Thanks.
    Yep, this is dead on correct!
    "All is fair in love and war." - Francis Edward Smedley

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    So should I make an attempt to get it now?

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    Quote Originally Posted by ErikEverhard View Post
    So should I make an attempt to get it now?
    Depends, do you want to go out with her?
    "All is fair in love and war." - Francis Edward Smedley

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    Quote Originally Posted by ErikEverhard View Post
    So should I make an attempt to get it now?
    Only if you want to go out with her.

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    Your a guy and every girl kids or not likes to feel special. If you like a girl this much let it be known. "WOOO" her so to say. If she responds positively then you know she likes you if she doesn't then she just wants to keep it in the friends zone.

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    Sure, I would like to go out with her and get to know her better. Only 1 week of classes left, and to me one of the worse things in this world is to live with regret.

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