Cheating Poll

[cycletease]

Just curious about how many people have been involved in a relationship where someone has cheated?

[Junket]

hahahaha...hmm...heh...

[JimmyHat]

Whats a guy supposed to do when he doesnt get any action.......find the next lucky woman that comes along......just dont tell the girlfriend

[C1d6OC]

Whats a guy supposed to do when he doesnt get any action.......find the next lucky woman that comes along......just dont tell the girlfriend

Agreed...except I don't have a girlfriend

[cycletease]

Interesting that we have the cheated here, i guess the cheaters are too busy to get on a forum

[KirstyM]

I cheated on my last b/f but have never been cheated on myself.

[misombra]

i was cheated on by my high school boyfriend. i think it was good that i went through that early, now i know what cheating can do to a person. now, i can spot a cheater a mile away. i don't know what it is about them i just know that they are inclined to cheat. call it intuition or whatever.

[nomas]

Maybe you're too confident in your abilities to spot 'em, Sombra...and will thus be further hurt when one you were so sure wasn't a cheater, cheats...

Still, I like your confidence, cuz I think it helps with the jealousy issue..if you're sure of your intuitions, you don't have to keep interrogating your boy for incriminating info. And it if your method is pretty effective, I'd be happy to be readily identified as a non-cheater.

So, (since you can see them coming a mile away) I wonder, are the majority of people cheaters or non-cheaters? Is there a difference among sexes? Are more men cheaters or more women?

Freds

[misombra]

well it's harder for me to spot a woman cheater, but i have known several. my feeling comes from the guys, maybe because i'm looking for it more. but my feelings have been really good, mikey is probably the most trustworthy person i've ever known, and i'm 100 percent confident that he wouldn't cheat on me, and i don't have to ask or keep an eye on him and all that. but if my feeling is ever wrong then i'll eat my sweet words...

[RyanIrish]

Never cheated on any of my gfs and never been cheated on...

[KirstyM]

In my experience women get it worse than men when they cheat.

Plenty of my male friends have cheated - while in serious relationships, and not just a fling, but theyve had 'serious' bits on the side, sometimes more than one extra - yet when the rest of my friends discovered it, after a couple weeks, everything was back to normal and they would be forgiven.

When I cheated, where the circumstances werent as bad IMO, I got complete hell for random people and half my friends ditched me because suddenly I wasnt the person they thought I was.

Now I'm not saying I didnt deserve this because yes I did cheat, but surely men who had cheated in much more serious relationships and had proper affairs going on should also have got similar reactions if we follow the same rules? But no apparently men are allowed to do this kinda of thing.

It's the feminist in me coming out again.

[Tearslost]

cheating is such a gray word you can call it anything. If you consider it only sleeping with someone that is a mistake, but cheers to the masses.

[Nice Lover Boy]

Whats a guy supposed to do when he doesnt get any action.......find the next lucky woman that comes along......just dont tell the girlfriend

Umm...*raises up his hand*...I do that too. But lately the women who I have been with cheated on their hubbies and b-friends to be with me. Pretty cool, huh? I'm just getting my changed back for getting cheat on during high school. It's all good.