this is about a guy I met in Spanish classes (something I do for funit's not at school or something, just a hobby). After classes, he's asked me out for a drink 2 times. We really had a nice time. After the Spanish course ended he said to me that we should go to the movies together sometime.
so I sent him an email to invite him to the movies and we went to the cinema last friday. It was really nice and at the end of the evening he kissed me.
so far so good you'd say right? These things make it sound like he does like me. There are some things that makes me doubt this however...
he's always been very touchy feely right from the start (like touching my arm when he talked to me and putting his arm around me when he made a joke). The thing is, he was also touchy feely with another girl in language class (not in a perv way, just touching the arm or laying his hand on her shoulder while saying something to her). What do you guys think? Is he just a touchy feely person in general or is he flirting with different girls?
What also worries me, he always takes days to reply to my emails, for example when I sent him that invitation to the movies, it took him 5 days to reply! Maybe he wasn't sure he wanted to go with me and needed a lot of time to think about it? Maybe I'm not that important to him so he didn't care about replying fast? He always carries his smartphone so I find it hard to believe he just hadn't read my email yet.
what's your view on this, does he like me or not? I'm really confused.
Is it ok to just ask him about his feelings and what he meant by kissing me? Maybe he just felt like kissing, but maybe he has feelings for me...
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03-01-12, 03:35 AM #1
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Is he into me or not?
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06-01-12, 03:10 AM #2
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I dated a girl that only answered her emails once every 4 days, because it took so long for her laptop to turn on. (Windows does that ya know.) She preferred texts or phone calls.
So, ask him if he wants to date some more. And ask him why he doesn't answer email too often. I check my email every day. But that's not what everyone does. I need more info on what his excuse is for the delay in replies.I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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who serioulys emails people to ask them on a date, call him or ask in person or text him.
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Not everyone is looking for a relationship....maybe he is just into dating.....you know just kicking some tires to see if there is someone he does want a relationship with.
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08-01-12, 05:27 AM #5
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If he is taking days to get back to you, that should tell you it's just casual and he is hoping to get you in the sack eventually.
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08-01-12, 08:11 AM #6
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just not that into you. The guy has a smartphone. If he wasthinking of the girl he would be checking his emails all the time.
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08-01-12, 08:17 AM #7
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This.
Originally Posted by oldskool83
Also this. Its casual. He's not that into you. Originally Posted by smackie9
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
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