Hi all,
Bio: I'm 21/Male, Ex is 21/Female.
A little background first. To keep things simple, I was involved in a 4.5 year relationship which ended at the beginning of year 2011. Things were generally smooth but the break up happened because ex had to go overseas to study at the beginning of 2011.
Basically, she went overseas, new bunch of friends, clubbing, alcohol.. Needless to say it was easy for her to cheat, which she did. Don't know about you guys but to me, making out with someone else, yea that's kinda cheating. And this is only as far as I know.
I decided to end things back then knowing that it's all going to hell and knowing that she's on a "it's just a phase of my life, I want to be single" mode.
The point of my post is, about a month back she came back and will be back home for about 3 months, after which she has to return overseas to finish her studies. About 1 month in to her return, she chats me up on fb (she initiated). My point of confusion is that she speaks to me like nothing has happened, AND she gives me her temporary number while she is back here WITHOUT me asking for it whatsoever. I was just talking about casual stuff to her, nothing relationship related. It really confuses me and I don't know what are her intentions.
More info: Breakup was ugly; No contact between us for almost the entire duration she was overseas; She was TERRIBLY fickle and undecided about the relationship prior to its end.
Any insight, opinions and perspectives will be much appreciated.